She's dropping hints about living together
We've been together six months and it's been a very nice relationship.
We are both older adults in our late fifties. She's divorced and I am a widower.
I prefer living alone. I like how we do date nights and then I get to go home.
I like her and we have fun together. But I don't want her 24/7.
She's dropped these little hints like how her lease is coming up soon, and how she really likes the neighborhood I live in. I have a house and she has an apartment. She's probably thinking. I have plenty of room for her since I live in a house by myself.
I really do not want to get married again. She's actually my second relationship after my wife died. The first relationship ended after 7 years when the woman involved said. We had grown apart and she wanted to go separate ways.
Anyway I really enjoy companionship and I really enjoy this woman's companion ship. But I don't want to be tied down and live with anyone.
A friend of mine said that with some women, it either has to be marriage or nothing.
I guess I will know soon enough. If she push's more about her lease coming up and drop hints about moving in with me. If I have to explicitly tell her no she's not moving in, that is not going to be good for our relationship. She will probably be pissed off.
I really enjoy our relationship just the way it is. We get together couple times a week and we have fun together, we go places and have fun. But at the end of the day she goes home and I go home. I like it that way.
Never live with the girl. She takes over your life
If you live with a girl, it changes the relationship.
Women do not like the "just dating" or just "seeing someone" phase of a relationship to last long. They want to think they are working towards something deeper.
Too bad. Girls need to be supportive and not make all these demands on him.
I'm male, enjoy dating and sex, and like that type of relationship. I do not wanna work towards anything deeper.
Amen! Women get too damm clingy
There are more old ladies than old men. Tell her don't give up her apartment! Life is too short.