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Her business trip and I don't care anymore
My wife is 38 and still looks fine, more like 28. She is a supervisor at her work and we've been married 17 years. She isn't going anywhere. We have the house, kids, plenty of money, all of the things that she won't blow up. She still loves me, although we have our occasional spats like any married couples.
She travels occasionally on business, usually to conferences with other coworkers. She went on a trip a few months ago and is going on another one. I was looking through her travel bag and noticed birth control pills. She's already been on them for over a week, because some were missing. That was weird, because I had a vasectomy years ago. We had a talk.
Me: Is there something you need to tell me about your trip?
Her: What are you talking about?
Me: The birth control pills that are in your bag.
Her (nervous): Oh, okay. Um, let's talk.
Me: Yeah, who are you fucking?
Her: No one. Yet. You don't understand.
Me: Well, make me understand.
Her: I'm friends with Colin and Mike.
Me: Who are they?
Her: Other managers. We're going to the conference together.
Me: So you need birth control pills?
Her: Look, I'm not saying we're going to do anything.
Me: It certainly seems like it.
Her: It's just in case, you know?
Me: Just in case you fuck them?
Her: Come on. Are you gaslighting me?
Me: No, I'm not. I just want you to be honest.
Her: Let me just say, um, that I'm not gonna bring any babies back.
Me: So you are planning to fuck?
Her: Listen, that is one of the reasons you married me, right?
Me: No, I didn't marry you to fuck other guys.
Her: But you know that I like sex, (emphasis) A LOT. You get that, right?
Me: Don't I give you enough?
Her: It's different. It's a business trip. Basically a semi-vacation.
Me: And that makes it okay?
Her: This doesn't change anything between us, you know.
Me: I certainly have a say in that, I think.
Her (indignant): Relax. This is nothing about our relationship.
Me: What is it about, then?
Her (exasperated): I like a cock in my pussy, okay? Different ones are nice.
Me: So you are going to get fucked.
Her: Maybe. Hopefully. Is that what you want to hear?
This went on ad nauseam until I finally gave up and dropped her off at the airport. She is going to come back well fucked and I don't really care at this point. I love our family and don't want to break anything up. We have kids to raise. I think I can deal with her carnal desire to put her pussy on foreign dicks. She's probably an addict and certainly in denial. Maybe someday she will lose those cravings. Maybe not, but it's just fucking, I guess.
I guess it depends on the guy and the relationship but this would not fly with me. The fact that she was planning to hide it is already bad enough. She was honest when you found her out but the fact that she was insistent that she was still going to do it and telling you you should be fine with it is just fucked up. It'd be one thing if she gave into lust and had a one night stand and felt guilty afterward but this? Damn. She sounds like she has no guilt about actually planning to go through with it. It seems like her doing this would really bother you and she didn't even seem to care. That's cold. I'd have given her an ultimatum and said if she went through with it anyway you'd divorce her. I get wanting to keep things together for the sake of the kids but this has the potential to become a very toxic situation full of resentment which would honestly be even worse for the kids to be around. You've made your feelings about it known and if she doesn't respect that and essentially spits in your face, cut her loose man. There's no saving things if she doesn't give a shit.
My wife has a really good job with a law firm and she travels quite a lot with it, if it wasn't for her money we wouldn't have the life we have,so I've pretty much turned a blind eye to what she does when she travels, she didn't have to tell me about it but she did in all fairness,being the only woman that's so high up with the company she has often been a play thing for the directors of the company and she has been fucked by multiple men after business meetings! Once she told me that she flew to dubai where she was met by a couple of businessmen,she was taken to an amazing hotel room where inside there were 10 Arab men,she was told about the business deal and for it to go through she had to be fucked by all of these men,she told me that it was awful, they ordered her to do anything they wished for and that included her being fucked in her arse by the 10 men
It's just sex. Some people enjoy sex with different people. I am male, married, I've had sex with different girls when I travel without my wife. The girls I fuck is just sex, I still love my wife and have no intention of leaving. I just enjoy sex with new people. Your wife says she likes how a different dick feels in her. I like to see how a different pussy feels with my dick in it, I like different sized and shape and softness of boobs. I love to kiss,, I have found that married women really, really get into the sex. I guess it is kind of liberating for them. They get to enjoy sex NSA, just pleasurable sex with no other concerns in the world.
At least she was honest with you about wanting to fuck other men my wife was the same way she loved to have sex with different men and she was honest about it right from the beginning. It was hard at first for me to know that my wife was fucking other men but after a while I realized that she really did love me and she just wanted to have fun with guys and it was just sex that she wanted. And to tell you the truth she never treated me any different and she never turned me down for sex anytime I wanted it. She's been a good wife and lover to me and she doesn't let other men interfere with our marriage if we have plans for the night and a guy calls her she tells him not tonight I am going out with my husband. So what she does on her own time really doesn't bother me that much anymore after all it's just sex now like she is falling in love with them.
More like she isn't falling in love with them, yet. It'll happen, just you wait.
I guess you never been wiped out by a cheating wife . I have Twice It will never happen again .
If you are not going to kick her to the curb, then you have the right to have other pussy yourself
Let her enjoy her life in her way now. And you find one for you!