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Thirsty Thirties (The Cravings)
I'm not sure wtf is wrong with me, but since I hit 30 I've had a major spike in my libido. It actually started rising around the time I was 28 or so. I'm 30 now.
I'm a mom to a son and daughter, so we're done with kids. My husband had a vasectomy, so I'm not on birth control. I've always been pretty horny, but my sex drive has been through the roof in recent months. When I'm ovulating each month it's like I'm a creamy mess. I get wet and horny for no reason. The urge to mount becomes prominent. My clit gets really sensitive like it is on fire and I can reach orgasm with the slightest touch.
I masturbate regularly and my husband is still good at fucking me when I ask, but even when he finishes I want more about an hour or two later. I crave dick. I work at a pretty large office and even the guys I'm around start looking attractive when I'm in that zone. I find myself flirting and having naughty thoughts when I shouldn't.
I went to the doctor to see if there was something wrong, and my doctor ran me through several tests and gave me a clean bill of health. He just said, "Be happy that you are healthy and have that desire." I don't know. I just want to cool out and not think about sex sometimes.
I talked to my mom about this and she said it runs in the family. She said that she was horny as hell at my age, but that it will take care of itself when I hit my mid 40s. Well, that is many years away. I have an older sister, and I've asked her about it too. She's the same way, but says that she balances her cravings by being in a swinger lifestyle with her husband that allows her to get enough dick. She said that she gets fucked enough that it keeps her brain and body on the level. I don't want to do that.
I'd just like to go a day or two without thinking about fucking all of the time. I don't think that is too much to ask.
Sounds like you need a FWB. Or 2
I am the same way and I can't help myself I need sex all the time I was driving my pore husband crazy because he couldn't keep up with me. We talked about it for a long time he he said that maybe I needed another man on the side and see if that would satisfy my sexual needs so with his permission I started going out by myself at night to clubs and it wasn't hard to find someone that just wanted to have sex with me. It was amazing and I went home to my husband and we ended up making love for hours I felt like a whole woman being satisfied with myself. I now have a few male friends that I have sex with and my husband doesn't have all the pressure on him to perform in the bedroom constantly. Maybe one day my sexual feelings will slow down but right now this is working for us.
The more one is sexually active at younger age, the longer is likely enjoy sex at later age! So enjoy your high libido!
I'd give anything for my wife to be that way again! Don't be upset. It'll lass and now we barely even fuvk. In our mid 50s, I'm still horny as hell, she sadly never is. I mastrubate 10 to 15 times +++ a week to slow the urges. I personally hope my urges never stop!