Conflicted
This just happened couple nights ago! I'm just horrified and just horny about it. Part of me can't believe this happened. Part of me is excited about it.
I sucked dick with my mom! We shared a dick! No sex.. we just blew a guy at the same time! I don't feel like I need to get into detail but we were drunk and it just happened.
It's Absolutely crazy processing it. I go from guilty, embarrassed and ashamed to unbelievably horny. I haven't seen or talked to her since ot happened but I imagine she feels the same way I do. Or I at least hope so. I hope she either has mixed feelings like I do or best case scenario is completely fine and OK with it as far as me and her are concerned. Cheating on my dad is a whole other thing but I would hate to be part of something that makes her uncomfortable or feel regret or any kind of negative feelings about it.
Please please will someone out there, mother or daughter, please comment if this happened to you and what was the aftermath, good or bad, and how you dealt with it. I'm conflicted and looking for guidance and/or perspective.
My mom caught me having sex with her boyfriend. She was upset and mad at first but got over it. She married him a year later. He's my step-dad now and everything is cool. I was also married at the time. It's a little complicated.
I lost my dad in a car wreck when I was young.
I married my high school boyfriend after graduation. He joined the military and after basic I traveled with him and we rented. Mom started dating after I moved out.
My husband got deployed and I was staying with mom to save rent. Her boyfriend was staying with her at this point. Mom was working 2nd shift and had just left. I smoked a joint and was relaxing on the couch when he came in the room. I knew what I was doing, it had been a month since the last time I'd had sex & I'd heard him and mom having sex since I moved in. I was flirty and he didn't back down. I was planning to only give him oral but we ended up having sex. It didn't stop there. It became so routine, mom eventually became suspicious and caught us. She told us she was going to work one day, drove off, waited and came back and caught us in the act. She was upset and mad but after everyone calmed down she was cool.
Talk with your mother it's the only way you will know.she may be having the same thoughts
I know. My gut is telling me that it's ok. I guess I'm afraid she might say other wise.