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Is this normal? At least a little?
My husband and I have been married 12 years, and we dated for a couple years before that. We're 38 and have a 10 yo daughter. I genuinely like hanging out with him and we are a solid financial partnership. He's an attorney and I'm a nurse. We enjoy our time together daily, but our sex life has been drab in recent years. I think of him as an ultimate best friend and dad, not a lover at this point. I know, it is probably my fault, but that is how I feel. We even sleep in different bedrooms. I never want a divorce.
I had been monogamous with my husband until recently, when I had sex with an old male friend from a former job that I had. We had very hot sex. He had a girlfriend, so we both cheated, but it was amazing sex and chemistry. My husband found out about it and we had a long talk.
I told him that I love him dearly, but maybe we needed to think about an open relationship. I love him, but I'm just not turned on by him like other men turn me on. I want a small network of male friends who give benefits. He was a bit hurt by it, but also saw this coming. He said he didn't want a divorce either, so he accepted it.
I'm okay with my husband fucking other women. I know my husband isn't attractive enough to maybe get new pussy, but I'd be okay with it if he did. I've already been fucking male friends and some younger, single guys from work. I'm quite attractive and get a lot of male attention. And I want to play while I'm still young enough to attract the hot ones.
Again, I DO NOT want a divorce. I love my husband. I just like fucking other men. That pushes my buttons big time in the right way. I'm coming to grips after many, many years that sexual variety is the only thing that will keep me happy and satisfied. And I tell the guys I've been dating that I'm married, so don't expect a commitment.
No, I am not a slut. I will buy the dinner. I am just honest.
Can anyone else relate?
Their is nothing wrong with what you two are doing. They're more married couples that are in a "Hot Wife / Cuckold" relationships then you know. In fact it's becoming quite common. My wife and I've been married for 18 years. Our entire married I've been her Cuckold husband. It started when we were still dating. We had a MMF three some, after a party. I got so turned on watching another man having sex with her. She got turned on watching me clean his cock afterwards, and then going down on her after he had cum inside her, and cleaning her pussy out.
It was such a amazing turn on for both of us we agreed to continue this type of sexual relationship.
You hit the nail on the head when you said a variety of men. I love my husband more than anything else and I definitely don't want a divorce neither does he but a woman has needs that have to be met. My husband will get on top of me and within a few minutes he is done and rolls over and goes to sleep and then he couldn't be bothered about sex for a month or so he just doesn't have a sex drive. We talked about it and we agreed that we should have a open marriage. He doesn't want other women but is OK with me being with other men I am not a slut and it's not like I go out every night maybe once a week or so I will spend the night with someone else and enjoy myself with a man who knows that I am married and we have a wonderful night together. Being able to have sex with different men has saved my marriage and we are both very happy together.
Can I relate? Absolutely. I am male upper 60s married long time. I first cheated when we had been married about 30 years. That was a great turn on. Since then I have cheated with lots of girls. Some I see multiple times when I’m in the same town as them, some are one night stands. Sex with a new girl is really really hot. Sex with a married woman is really really hot. You go girl, it’s your body, fuck whom ever you want.