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Full circle
Im a 54 year old male and I’ve always had a high sex drive, as I guess most of us do.
As a young teenager I’d masturbate every day; and then as an older teenager, and through my 20s, I had a series of monogamous relationships that lasted a few years each, with gorgeous lovely sexy girls and ladies who I was lucky to have sex with most days when we were together. Perfect.
Then, after a break up when I was in my early 30s, which put me off getting too serious for a little while, I built up a little black book of more casual dalliances, 4 of whom were regulars every week. So that was great for about 5 years, sex every day with one or other of them, sometimes 2 in a day. Sooo good. Everything was open and everyone was happy. I’m getting aroused now remembering them!
And then I met The One.
I let my lovely intimate lady friends know that I was off the market, and I set off on a beautiful, intimate, sexual and emotionally complete journey with my soulmate. Sex every day. Normally more than once. And a life of fun and adventure.
We got married and had 3 children in quick succession, within a month of her stopping taking the pill, and only 11 months between each of them. And continuing sex every day for the best part of 20 years. Awesome. It never got boring for either of us. And we carried on both being completely sexually satisfied by each other, for all those years.
But then came the dreaded menopause. Dearly me. The daily sex dropped off, and there were other challenges too. I still needed to cum every day, so I started grabbing a few minutes to quickly masturbate and let her know I was doing it and thinking of her; and sometimes she would join me and hold my balls while I made myself cum, or she would finish me with a quick hand job. We were in separate rooms by then.
So then over the last year or two, full sex is now once every 2 to 3 months. and it’s lovely. But I still want her and I want sex every day.
So I’ve come full circle. I masturbate every day like I used to when I first worked out that I could. And I love it, but I know what I’m missing, and I want so much more.
So that’s all I have to confess, for now.....
75(m). Even though my wife agrees to sex whenever I want, I still enjoy masturbating frequently every day. I just like the feeling I guess.
I’m in the same boat my friend! 52 MWM here. And all I want to do is lick and fuck my wife’s chubby pussy, but the answer is always no. So I jack off at least twice a day now. I wish she’d find her sex drive again 😢
Brother you need to take a little more time out to get your wife's sex drive to spike again and a little less time masturbating and if you put that time in I guarantee you you'll have her back.