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Losing interest
After we got married, I gained a ton of weight thanks to a prescription change, the doctor warned me that weight gain was a known side effect. I've struggled the past two years to lose the weight. My wife also gained a ton of weight while pregnant and didn't lose it after my daughter was born...about two years ago. My wife was been treated poorly by her ex husband, and she is absolutely terrified that I'm gonna lose interest and cheat on her (like the ex did). I don't have the heart to tell her I've already lost interest, but I have no intention of cheating on her. She wasn't skinny when we met, maybe 170-ish, but now she's a solid 240+ and she simply does nothing for me anymore...not even a wiggle. I'm tall and work a very physical job, so I've always been a big guy (220-ish), but after the med changes I'm now 300. I feel like a total hypocrite.
Breathing in oxygen down you mouth doesn't make you obese. What you shove down it does. How many calories in drugs. Look in the mirror.
Sick of over weight people blaming something for their problems other than what they eat.
STFU, fat shamer. Some medication absolutely does contribute to weight gain. This is common knowledge in the medical field. Only fat hating imbeciles like you don't get it.
My wife is 250+ and I still fuck her, it isn't as arousing but it is still a hole to fuck.
This is normal in marriage, also losing interest doesn’t mean you can’t regain it. As far as I see it, there’s two routes you can go down to rekindle things with your wife if you love her and want to make things work, first is the obvious, begin a journey of mutual fitness based self improvement as a couple and revel in each others new found self esteem. Or the second option is to begin watching only bbw based fetish porn (smothering, femdom, etc) and find a new lust for her as she is.
It sounds like you really do care about her and I sincerely hope you can kindle a new passion for her!
All the best,
Your anonymous friend
Sorry, but "BBW" does absolutely nothing for me, I've never been interested in "big" girls. I've always like small, petite, feminine girls, which is ironic because my wife is none of those!
Totally agree - watch porn that is attuned to her current appearance. I love SSBBW movies involving face sitting, domination, humiliation etc. I have subtly introduced these fetishes in my own marriage and it has sparked new interests. To the extent I might add that I do not fantasise about skinny bitches no matter how hot they are!
+1 to the above!