Found condoms hidden in my wife's underwear drawer

Add-on to my original post...

So just today my wife tells me she's going on "a short walk." Dressed in her floppy pink sun hat, her tank top and (of course) her slutty walking shorts. This was at 2:00 p.m. She doesn't get home until 4:30 p.m.? That's a short walk?

Not only is she fucking other guys when I'm gone on business trips, clearly she's brazen enough to go out for some while I'm at home doing chores.

I'm Jen and I've been commenting below about my open marriage and swapping/swinging.
Ok. I know you have an idea she's cheating right now. You found the condom's in her panty drawer as proof.
Le's look at this situation. It's 4th of July weekend and she's going on a short walk but got for 2.5hrs. I think she ran into friend and got tied up talking.
This is a weekend when friends are with friends and family. It's way to blatantly obvious for her to wonder next door this weekend at that time. Mostly everyone is doing yard work or decoration for a grill out. Over look yesterday.
However, if you are interested in watching her have sex with one of the men you mentioned below. This is your time so see who she's flirty with.
Then, next week you can put out ideas of swapping. One time during sex, my husband said, "I bet you look good getting F**ed by Gary".
Gary is a guy we swapped with often when I was younger. That's when I first noticed my husband would like watching but I'm not into that. We eventually matured into an 'open' marriage and that's where we are today.
For all I know, he's involved with a group so he can watch?
Have a great 4th!

Thanks for all of the good advice, Jen. I really do appreciate it. You're probably right about the walk. My wife is extremely outgoing. She'll talk to anybody and everybody and it is a holiday weekend after all when everybody's outside. But since you asked, she's probably most "flirty" with Mike who lives around the corner from us (Mike's the one who commented on my wife's long legs over drinks one night). Mike is also married, close to our age and an empty-nester just like us. One time, when we were doing some yard work and Mike happened to walk by with their dog, we stopped what we were doing to chat. At some point in the conversation my wife asked him if he'd been working out "because you look terrific." Then, after he'd left, she commented on how "buff" he looked and that he had a "great ass, too." I'm not in bad shape...I could stand to lose 15-20 pounds...but I don't have the muscle or build that Mike has. Later on I locked myself in our basement bathroom (my office bathroom) and beat off to thoughts of Mike fucking her brains out.

This is Jen. Did you get to chat with your wife about Mike? If he's married, maybe you guys could work up a swap. I think you both will enjoy.

Not yet. Trying to find the right time.

Ok. Good luck to you finding the right time. What are your thoughts right now? Do you still want to watch? Are you ready to end the marriage? Communication is key right now. That what this anonymous board is for. There are experienced people chatting with you. Jen
In my case, my husband and I enjoy and open marriage. However, swinging/swapping is fun too.

I absolutely would love to watch her get fucked by Mike. I don't want to participate. I just want to sit back naked and stroke one off. It would be even better if Mike's well hung so that they both could make fun of my "little boy cock" (I'm less than 5" cut, and that's on a good day LOL).

I think you are ready to have that conversation with her. Do you know your approach yet? You are not positive she's cheating? For now, you only found condoms in her panty drawer.
BTW: My husband and I swapped with a couple last night. He's a good friend that I've been with many times. When we finished, I showed him this post because he's watched his wife during a 'full swap'. He's advise was to start the conversation slow because she might get shocked at first. Keep her calm and assure her that your are fine with her infidelity. Mention it actually arouses you to know another guy finds her attractive enough to have sex with her.
Tell her you are ok with them doing it at your place. Also, so Mike's wife doesn't get suspicious there may be times they need to have sex while you are home. After a few times, then you can ask if you can watch. My partner had a good point. You have to gain Mike's trust here too.
You can't just say, I know you're cheating, can I watch? lol
Just a suggestion. Keep me posted.

Another huge fantasy of mine related to all of this: I would love it if my wife put me in a cock cage and gave Mike the key. I wouldn't be able to fuck her (or even masturbate) without HIS permission. If I ever have to get off while she's at work, I'd have to text Mike to come over to the house and unlock me. He'd force me to strip and then watch me masturbate while telling me all the things my wife and he have been doing together. Filthy things. The cruder the better.

First she is fucking someone. Up to you if you stay together some people at that age don't mind if there mate is fucking someone else. She being safe about it that for sure . At her age she going to get knocked up so most likely its somebody younger then her.

The thought of her fucking other guys actually turns me on. It's all I think about now since finding the condoms. I beat off to fantasies of Mike or Tom or Dan or Dave doing her...even gang-banging her...and I'm shooting bigger loads than I have in a long time.

Just leave her man. I understand that a lot of people may be saying that its ok, but she should have talked to you about this if she wanted to branch out to other guys. I understand its hard but there really isn't anything to do. If your ok with her fucking other guys then thats ok but do what ever you believe is best for yourself.

At least she uses condoms when she is getting fucked by other men. Let her enjoy herself when you are gone. My wife can't stand using condoms but she had her tubes tied so she can't get pregnant that was part of the deal we made together when she started fucking other guys. We already had two kids together and I didn't want her to get pregnant by someone else.

Yes, but what about STDs? Condoms aren't just about preventing pregnancy.

Hidden camera (nanny cam)

And let us know what you find

If I could figure out a way to hook up a live spy camera in our bedroom I would do it. But there's no way. First, I'm not the least bit mechanically inclined and, second, there's no place to put it where she wouldn't notice it.

They have some that are also phone chargers and very simple to use.

You're lucky she's hiding condoms and hopefully making the guy use them.
The dog's knocked over the trash in our garage. I found a CVS bag tied with something double bagged inside. I opened it and found a Letsgetchecked STD at home kit.

Maybe they are for the dog

Your wife is actually thinking of you by having her 'lover or lovers' use condoms. By your detailed description, it appears she's very attractive, desired by other men and she still craves sex.
Don't take this as a bad thing. You can build on it with your relationship. My husband and I started out swinging in our late 20s and we eventually started casual swapping and now we are in our 40s, our marriage is 'open'. The only rule we've always had was 'condoms required all the time.' I've had countless lovers over the years but my husband is the only man that I've allowed to cum inside me.
You mention you travel a lot. I'm sure you've bedded down a few ladies during your travels. Have you? Be truthful...lol
Your wife is allowing other men to explore her body but also not allowing them to cum inside her womb.
You two are mature adults. Open the conversation and you will be surprised at how this will make your marriage grow stronger.

I have never cheated on my wife.

WOW! You're one of the last honest and loyal hubbies out there. I feel sorry you found your wife's hidden stash of condoms. After all these years of marriage, I think we all know what's going on. Your wife is knocking boots and wrapping her long legs around another guy. But whom?
Have you confronted her about your discovery yet?
Do you think it's one of the neighborhood husbands?
Again, back to my original reply. At your age, you might consider researching swinger groups in your area. By your description of your wife, it sounds like she's been blessed with amazing genes and kept herself up well for her age. My husband and I started swinging/swapping when we were in our 20s. I bust my a$$ at the gym to maintain my figure. Men are always asking if I'm 28 to 32 when I'm actually 46.
Have the conversation with your wife. You've been married too long to discard everything. She might be going through a 'curious' phase. It's nice to be desired by another man. I enjoy the thrill. However, my husband and I have a special bond. We enjoy each other but we also enjoy each of us enjoying other people. When we first started swinging, my husband told me I was much too sexual in the bedroom for only him to enjoy. He wanted other men to enjoy the experience. Please reply.

I'd be willing to bet it's one (or more) of the neighborhood hubbies. Prime suspects would be Mike, Dan, Tom or Dave. They're always chatting her up when she's out on a walk. And if they're not doing her, for sure they're beating off over thoughts of doing her. Mike has even made comments to me over drinks about her long legs.

Maybe I will confront her about the condoms. Being a cuckold would be hot. Not participate...just watch.

Please be cautious before you discuss your discovery. She might take it wrong, feel embarrassed and insist on a divorce anyway.
Is your marriage strong? If so, have the conversation.
I'd recommend starting out with offering to have an open marriage or swapping. If you are fine with it, pursue that because this is not something to end a marriage over. Remember, she's using condoms with her partner so she's thinking of you.
I'm glad you're open to being a cuckold 'watching' but believe it or not, it's difficult to find a partner for her that will agree to you watching. It might sound exciting and erotic on this site but there is stress on the two of them to have sex while you watch. Plus, starting out, she may not feel comfortable having you watch another man has sex with her.
To be honest, my husband has never watched me with another man and I'd prefer he not.
Our Swinging/Swapping lifestyle is about experiencing other people.