Cheating wife

I would love to have an update on this! My hope is that you saved copies of everything for your own enjoyment, that you're still together and in love, and that somehow or another (whether by her confession or yours) her cards are on the table and you've decided together to rebuild trust.

Also, and this is my biggest hope for you, I hope that you've found a way for her to continue fully enjoying and exploring her sexuality while making you a fully informed and respected part of it. Whether this means you getting to watch or participate, or just getting all of the details afterward, having a hotwife can be incredibly exciting and rewarding!

Regardless, please, please, give us an update.

Paul how about an update??

Considering you asked what to do, I can see why she cheated... sheesh

When I caught my wife cheating on me with a guy we ended up separating for over 2 years. I moved out and left her everything the house and car and she moved him in with her. But she kept coming over to my place and we would end up fucking. So now she's cheating on him with me. I didn't understand what was going through her head. Then I find out that she is fucking a lot of different guys as she was living with the first guy she cheated on me with when he finally left her she wanted me to come back to her. I said that I wanted to know why she did what she did to me. She told me that she loved the attention and the excitement that she was having being with other men but deep down inside she was in love with me I still loved her and I was trying to understand what she needed and I told her no more going behind my back and making me look like a joke. After that she was honest with me and I knew what she was doing. Even though she was still fucking other men our marriage and relationship was stronger than before I can't explain why it just happened. This continued for a good 20 years with her fucking other men even bringing guys home with her then she just stopped all together and now it been just me and her still loving each other.

Once a wife or girlfriend starts fucking other men she's not going to stop until she's ready to stop. I went through this with my wife for almost 30 years before she stopped. Your going to have a lot of mixed feelings about her fucking other guys. You're going to be pissed off and turned on at the same time and worrying about her when she doesn't come home at night. Spending many nights alone jacking off thinking about her getting fucked by a stranger. And if you're wife knows that you are okay with it she starts to bring guys home with her and fucks them in your bed. And if you are lucky enough to have a threesom once and a while you will appreciate it. I spent 30 years with her fucking other guys seeing her and guys walking around my house naked her sucking cock and getting fucked in every room in the house. Having guys thank you for letting them fuck your wife

I discovered the same thing about my wife. The reason she decreased having sex with me wasn’t menopause but rather that she was teaching an 18 year old guy, who happened to be the son of friends, how to fuck. Thinking back on it, it started during a Christmas party where she innocently sat on his lap during a song. He didn’t want to dance and was there with his girlfriend. While she only sat on his lap for a minute, during that minute her ass was moving to the beat of a song. Afterwards I thought how I would feel if a 40 year old woman in a tight dress and high heels, large tits and visible cleavage sat on my lap and moved her ass in circles while bother her arms were around his neck. My cock would be hard as a rock. Over the years, I’ve caught him watching my wife’s tits and cleavage on several occasions. It didn’t surprise me as much when I found them, a month later being too noisy. He had her naked and in a doggy position, her 38 DDD tits dangling as he used his 18 year old large cock to fuck her brains out. No wonder she lost her 20 years of marriage sex drive. He kept saying to her “Does your husband fuck you this good.” “Is your husband’s cock this hard.” What made it worse for me was a few months later we’re they added passionate kissing into their fucking. It was hard watching her passionately work over his cock but when they started licking lips for 20 minutes it just seemed worse! When I would run into him in town or his family came over, it was difficult to talk to a young guy who’s been intimate with your wife and act like nothing happened. This went on for a year before he moved on. I got to watch him work her over several times and once he left she returned to normal.

So you let this young stud fuck your wife, and you did nothing to stop it. Why?

Sorry dude but this was kinda hot keep us updated

Mate i would tell jack to come over when your alone them beat the fucking live day light out of the little prick and stick barbwire up his ass and rip the fucking guts out of him, then tell that low down whore were to go and kick the whore out into the street were she belongs, just think mate your mixing someone else cum with your dick, get tested bro.

Take some anger management classes or something. You seem to have a problem with your aggression levels.

I agree that you should forward what you have and make copies and hide them possibly in a safe deposit box on a thumb drive. For me, I would watch every second of the videos and see if she tells this kid she loves HIM if she says I love Fing you or I love your big duck that’s different that’s just sec. If she ever says she loves Him or doesn’t love you I would turn off the video and kick her to the curb. If not I might not even tell her I know but I would look for what she likes and copy it if it’s just a size thing oh well. But the ball is in your court IF you get copies!

Also I think it’s likely only a matter of time before this kid tires of the game he’s playing (the videos indicate his clowning attitude). Don’t blow your options by playing your cards too soon.

Well now seeing this really did not happen and you only posted it so you could read it over and over while tugging your little dick probably you just can't do anything !!!!

I vote to "...carry on as normal as it hasn't seemed to have altered her feelings towards me" as you have 25 good years with her, and you confess it hasn't hurt your relationship. I understand that I'm in the minority on this, but I've been married over 30 years, and counting, and I wager most of the 'divorce her' pundits are single if not divorced. Staying happily married is a choice to sticking it out and figure things out and leaving divorce off the table.

I'm married longer than you, and I think he should tell her that he knows and if she wants to stay married, it ends now, and counseling is mandatory and he has access to all her devices until the trust is built back up. At least since the other 'man' is so young, there's probably not a chance that she wants to leave him for the other guy.

Time to kick the cheating slut to the curb if you have any self respect. Send the videos to yourself and save them and threaten to send them to everyone she knows if she doesn't give you an equitable divorce. Or send them anyway and humiliate her just like she has humiliated you. Decide on your own whether Jack needs a lesson about fucking married women. And definitely tell your son that his friend (along with your wife) is who destroyed the marriage. Yes, I firmly believe in standing up for oneself.

Depends on what you want. Either way, you have the goods on her. I'd first forward copies of all those videos and messages to yourself. Once you have them secure, you can confront her and take things any direct you want - divorce, maker he your sub, participate, be a cuck, just watch, get your own FWB, ... you decide. Lots of options.