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Wife and I Fantasize About Gangbanv
The wife and I have been together for a very long time. About a year and a half ago to spice up our sex life we started telling each other our fantasies while we have sex. My wife, the conservative type that she is, surprisingly fantasizes about her and a few other men having their way with her. To which I revealed that was also a fantasy of mine to partake in a gangbang with her being the object of our lust.
We continued this for some time now and it has been a game changer in our sex life. We often roleplay while we have sex and have had some of the best orgasms together.
I’ve asked her if she would ever pull the trigger and actually do a gangbang and her initial answer was, “no.” However, knowing that she has gotten off of gangbang pornos and fantasize while we’re having sex, I can’t help but think there’s a part of her that wants to be taken by; her words, “5 guys.”
Do you think there’s a part of her that actually wants to be used by multiple men in real life?
I finally convinced my wife to live out her fantasy,we both thought that I would join in fucking her but I was so fixated watching 4 men fucking her every holes,it's enough for me just to watch,we met with strangers at first but then I persuaded her to fuck my friends! I love it
My wife and I also role play and create filthy stories of unprotected gangbangs with 4 other imaginary guys. However, like you, it’s for our bed and extreme dirty talk.
She is happy to play and fantasize, while I’m happy she’s comfortable with me having my hotwife vixen and stag kink focused on her. She also talks about feeling safe and not being ‘hurt’.
However I do believe it’s a big bridge to cross from fantasy to real and I have read of many cases where things went downhill in the affected marriage afterwards.
If her sexual foundation is monogamy then it’s likely best to not push her. If however you really want to push forward you’ll need to think through the pitfalls and come up with rules.
A part of her? Sure..... Most women have that rape fantasy.
But doing so would change the heck out of your relationship very probably.
Sex therapists will tell couples that fantasizing is a great way to spice things up....but both must be mature enough to reign it in and keep it in your bed, between the two of you.
You're great together now - why risk losing that - why change?