Question on threesomes?

Hello everyone.
I'm a MWF, age 42, 5-3, and I try to take very good care of myself.

For the last 5 years my husband has expressed an interest in us having a threesome. He preferred a FFM, where I would, of course, need to pick the outside partner.

I actually have two of my female prospects (maybe...) in mind, but before I go any further I just wanted to pose a question.

How common are threesomes of any kind? (MMF, FFM, etc) Is it more hype between the ears of men like my husband (a porn thing...) or do these really happen more often than we think?

I would love to hear replies and any experiences you have had. I would also take any advice too. Thank you in advance for reading and participating.

1 month ago

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    • They are very common. I personally prefer mfm, but have had had several different situations. I’m not wthat I could put the number of times. My best advice is to make sure you are secure in your relationship first. Also remember it’s all about pleasure and having fun.

    • Also MWF, 33, and I've had threesomes with my husband and two of his male friends a few times, but it's not a regular thing at all, maybe once or twice a year. My husband talked me into it and I like sex and his friends so I said sure, let's play.

      Interestingly, when I talked to my female friends about this they admitted having threesomes too at some point, so I'd say it's a lot more common than people think.

    • At the age of 42 . . . Make sure the pleasure is all yours.
      I have to laugh as to what my wife would come up with.
      We trusted each other and we knew what the other one loved. I enjoy watching her and I enjoy where she would take our sex life after a MFM. She would come to me with
      “I’ll do something for you if you let me do something “ ? ?
      I don’t think they would let me say it on this site.
      There were those times her eyes would come wide open looking at me and say “OH I FORGOT IT WAS YOU” ! ! !
      Like I said in my other reply this would go on for weeks
      at a time after MFM. Tied to our bed blindfolded she
      would add to that excitement by having me invite some
      of our male friends over and let them have her.
      Asking my wife after “DON’T YOU WANT TO KNOW
      WHO IT WAS” ? ? “ NO . . MAYBE NEXT TIME”

      It’s not for everyone but just make sure you get pleasure from doing it or it will never work out down the road.

    • My wife and I would do MFM three some and it was always about her. Never hiding anything from each other no matter what it was meaning if any of our male friends hit on her or came by the house wanting to get her in bed.
      Leaving it up to her no matter who it was, married or single and her choice even when it came to having sex with a total stranger just for the excitement of it.
      Why would I be so care free about it . . As the sex between us for weeks after would be great. Some times I really didn’t know who the hell she was when we had sex. It was wild as for what she let me do with her, it was crazy sex for over 20 years.

    • They happen. My mom's friend was in a threesome and lost her boyfriend to the other woman.

      I used to want to be in a threesome (didn't matter if it was FMM or FMF) when I was younger, but then I lost the desire when I came out as bisexual because I didn't want to be the stereotypical bisexual who gets asked into threesomes.

    • They definitely happen. I've had one with my ex and another women whose BF watched, foursomes a couple times with a different ex, FMM threesomes with my current GF and other guys she was fucking, and two threesomes with two of my FWBs (one a woman and the other AFAB non-binary). All fun, and I'll be having lots more I hope--I'm only 31.

    • Threesomes are not uncommon. However, two men and a woman are much more common than two women and a man. There's a reason why single women who have sex with couples are called "unicorns".

    • I got into threesomes and orgies when I turned 40 after my divorce. Young, old, doesn’t really matter, MFM, FMF, MMMF, just a lot of work. Great experience would take it back, but I definitely prefer one on one.

    • Threesomes are fairly common. I'd guess somewhere around 10%-20% of the population has been in one. When you get down to it, that is a lot of people on the planet.

      I'm 44f and in my 20s and early 30s did them eleven times. I remember every one. All but two were MFM. It's no replacement for one on one intimacy, but when everyone is on the same page, it can be electric hot sex.

      I don't do them anymore as I've "done that" and prefer my husband only now, not to mention that I'm not as horny as I used to be in my late 20s.

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