What do you suggest i do?
I'm a married woman in my early 50's. My husband is almost 10 years older, but definitely doesn't look his age.
We've been together for over 30 years and in the beginning I was a virgin, but soon came to love sex and wanted it very regularly, which pleased my man, as you can imagine. But in later years I find that I need sex less and less but hubby wants it more and more. Its like my libido has deserted me and gone to him.
I do occasionally have sex with him but mostly I just get him off by hand. If i talk dirty to him he enjoys it more and cums so much quicker so its a win win situation for me as I can get back to nonsexual activities quicker and his sexual perversions are satisfied for a few days.
I knew hubby watched porn on line and masturbated to it but it wasnt until I walked in on him by accident that i found out that his interest in porn extended to gay porn. Other more regular hetro stuff too, but it was the gay porn that sort of shocked me.
I asked him about it and he said that although he has never sucked a mans cock and never would, he does fantasize about it. Since then when i give him a hand job I've started calling him a pervert and cock sucker, i pull on his nipples really hard and he gets very aroused by this and if I let him suck my fingers or my old dildo (that i never use these days), he cums so fast and intensely.
He has recently started watching gay porn and wanking off when i am in the room with him.
I love him as my husband but dont feel much sexually for him any more, nor do i feel sexual about anyone else. I dont want to lose him from my lack of interest as our relationship is great on every other level.
My question is should I encourage him to go with guys to fulfill his cock sucking fantasy and take pressure off myself?
Have any other wives dealt with similar problems?