Cold shoulder after oral with friend

My bff Rhonda wanted to do something special for her boyfriend's 18th birthday. She said he's into porn and likes threesome vids. She asked if I could be the third member and do a threesome for him as a present. I said sure, he's cute and let's just have some fun. I said it has to be a secret from my boyfriend.

We went over on his birthday and he was down with getting his present. We had rules. We'd all do oral, but only Rhonda, his girlfriend, would fuck him. We undressed, took turns sucking his dick, did 69 and daisy chain, and I got off twice from his mouth. He was good at eating pussy and sucking boobs. I also liked playing with his dick. It was average length but thicker than my boyfriend's and he shaves his pubes which looked sexy. We played for an hour until we heard his dad come home.

I don't know how, but word got out. I think Rhonda's boyfriend couldn't keep his mouth shut or something. My boyfriend is not talking to me or answering my texts. I told my boyfriend that I didn't fuck the guy, which is 100% true. It was just a little genital licking. I didn't even kiss him, except on his dick. He's all bent out of shape and I could use some advice on getting him to realize it wasn't that big of a deal. I was just helping out a friend.

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  • My wife and I have an agreement: We can fuck other people, but only if we let each other know ahead of time. And if there is something about the prospective fuck that may be a problem, or threat that one of us knows, then we don't do them. In our relationship these extra-marital flings, along with our swinging and swapping, is known simply as fucking. The love we have for each other is deep and built on trust, and when we are together our sex has love and intimacy, when we are with others it is fucking. What you did was violate his trust whether he fucked your cunt or not, so the way I see it is your relationship is doomed.

  • Your boyfriend is probably less pissed about you getting licked off than he is not being invited. You left him out. You should have had a fourway so at minimum he could get a taste of Rhonda. Or suck some cock.

  • You cheated the moment your panties dropped. I hope you learned your lesson after your boyfriend left you.

  • I can tell you from experience and from a guys perspective this is absolutely cheating. Believe it or not, almost the exact same thing happened to me. My girlfriends bff asked her to have sex with her and her boyfriend for his Birthday. When my girlfriend asked me if it would be ok for her to do this, I told her hell no. Not unless she and her friend planned on doing the same for my Birthday. She said no, so I said no. A few months later I found out she had gone ahead and did it anyway. Again I told her I wanted my Birthday threesome then. She again said no. She couldn't understand why I was so upset. According to her she did it for her friend and if we were to do it, it would have been for me. Which makes zero sense. I told her she either gave me the Birthday threesome or I was walking. I ended up walking. Bitch is a drunk drunk addict now. Good riddance.

  • So if you found out by rumor that your BF was in another girls snatch you would be chill about it.

  • You and Rhonda need to give your boyfriend a surprise make up gift.

  • I actually got asked to be the third in a threesome for my bff's boyfriend birthday. And while I'm considering it, I wouldn't if I had a boyfriend. Thats totally cheating.

  • "Just a little genital licking"? What is wrong with younger people in 2019 that they think this is not cheating or having sex?!? Who raised you?

  • According to Bill Clinton, a blow job is not sexual relations, but of course that ultimately depends upon what your definition of is is.

  • Even if it was only oral sex, it's still sex. Only solution is to have your lady friend over to give your boyfriend a threesome, otherwise, he will probably never forgive you for being intimate with another man.

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