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I'm 21 and have been seeing this guy who is 20. He was a virgin when we met. He's really shy and sweet and I love him, and I started slowly with him with regard to sex, as he was inexperienced. The first time we had sex I rode him and within maybe 30 seconds I could feel him spasm and fill me up. It was his first time feeling pussy, so I thought it was cute, gave him a kiss, told him I loved him, and figured he would last longer with more practice.
Well, we've been having sex nearly daily, sometimes 2-3 times daily, and he still can't seem to last more than a couple of minutes at most before he pops. We've tried different positions, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. He orgasms so quickly that I have yet to be able to have an orgasm myself when we are screwing. The only way I've been able to get off from him is when he gives me oral, which he does pretty well btw.
For guys who have dealt with premature ejaculation, how did you overcome it? I'd like to give my boyfriend some tips to help him last longer, because I want to be able to get off from his cock, but he doesn't last long enough.
I have never last more than a minute and I am 48
I generally came within a few minutes the first time each day, but she would arouse me again quickly... and I lasted as long as she wanted for the second and third times. So help him get hard again quickly! And take full advantage of his oral skills. Good luck.
He should jack off a few hours before sex and he should stop thinking how great pussy is while doing the act. Think of anything else
I too have this embarrassing problem, but I think the reason why my wife married me is I make up for it with my mouth. She loves the feeling of being licked after sex
In my case it was the same. Just thrusting my penis inside the pussy and half way in I cum. Even having sex after masturbation earlier to sex also didnot help. To overcome the shame I had to practice all type of pre sex play but sometimes that too make my cock too ripe that just the touching the pussy tip becomes too much sensitive that I have my cum before entering the pussy. Tried delay the pre mature ejaculation by applying cream and oil which just gave some 30 seconds time i.e. three or four thrusts and I am finished with cumming.
Then tried massaging my girl all over her body and applying the cream gave time to subside the tendency to cum. Then strongly catching hold the stem of the cock give some penetrating thrusts and when sensing the about cum feeling just retreats and engage in boob squeezing or body massaging to take off the thought of vaginal sex and its excitement. Slowly developing such attitude and working around, now I am able to last around 3 to 5 minutes. Still trying to increase the time of sex through practice.
It won’t work. You have been and will always be a 3 minute man. She will go find a man that can last.
So how about an update darling, has any of the suggestions been helpful ?
Look darling he is never going to get any better so if you love him talk to him about getting a well hung jockey on the job for you, he can go for a walk whenever your stud comes over
Every time he cums too quick for you give him a giant kick in the balls then make him satisfy you by tongue
You need an older man like me. I’m a 60 minute guy and won’t cum till you ask me to.
Make sure he masturbates quite a lot, give him heaps of blow jobs and if he is coming too quickly squeeze his prick real hard to hold his cum in, will not be long and he will be able to perform for you darling
All the best
Give him an orgasm first then get him hard again and over time he will learn to control his orgasms better to give you more pleasure. Worked great for me in my early years because it did not help being married to a really gorgeous woman, turned me on just seeing her naked
His youth and inexperience is working against him for a long performance at the moment. He can try applying desensitizing creme (sold over the counter ) and wear a condom. As previously said jack off or blow him to completion an hour or so prior and slow him the heck down if he's hittin it fast. Hang in there with him a while on this.
Keep at the daily pace your doing now and in time he will be able to start lasting. Good luck !
Have him wear a condom or 2
Have him try Trojan extended pleasure climax controlled condoms
I rarely get to enter my wife... You'll understand why in a moment. Last time we were going to go all the way, I was fingering my wife and really enjoying the moans i was causing her to make. She had a couple really good orgasms when I made a mess on the sheets. I even disappointed myself that day.
Point is, don't ask me.
I'm just glad she hasn't dumped me. She says my accidents make her feel sexy.
Have him masturbate for long time without ejaculating for a while; like an hour. Make him “edge” himself so that he learns to control his ejaculation. Cannabis also helps
Unfortunately for my wife, I am the same way. There have been times when I started cumming inside her on the first stroke but usually within 2 or 3 minutes I am cumming. Like your boyfriend, I always give my wife oral and she usually has a couple of orgasms before I put my cock inside her. Have you tried blowing him or jerking him off first? Maybe he will last a bit longer the second time around.
It might be his inexperience and it will resolve itself as time goes on. If you don't have money to see a doctor I'd look into different types of lubes and condoms. I think there are some out there that help guys last longer. Also, tell him to slow down and stop if he's getting too close.