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I suspected my wife was cheating with the neighbor guy when she started doing strange things. She has always been chummy with him, inviting him over whenever we invited friends and family, standing outside talking to him for an hour or so, just things like that. When I first asked her of anything was going on, she denied it and asked how I could ask her such a thing. Then I noticed she was buying new sexy panties and bras all the time. She had always worn plain white or black underwear until she started buying sexy bras and thong panties from places like Victoria Secret. Again when I questioned her on the change she denied doing anything and while crying said she did it for me. I tried to catch her a few times, but never caught her in the act. So a friend told me about these spy cameras used to catch cheating wives. I purchased a few and placed them around the house. Weeks and then months went by and nothing was afoul, not even so much as a kiss whenever the neighbor guy or anyone else stopped by.. I was starting to think maybe she was telling the truth.
I work for a global company, and one day they asked me to travel to China for a line inspection. I made arrangements and kissed my wife goodbye, telling her I would be home in a couple weeks. I returned home a couple weeks later and was greeted by my lovely wife. She cooked me dinner and we had a nice evening. Later that night I was sitting in the den finishing up some paperwork on my trip and I noticed the clock where one of the cameras were hidden. At first I didn't think anything of it, nor did I even think about it on my trip. I finished the paperwork and was about to head upstairs when I thought what the hell, I'll check to see what she had been up to. I pulled up the video and started running through it.at first it was more of the same things I had observed previously, nothing unusual. Then I came across exactly what I knew had been happening. There in the livingroom one night I watched as my wife and the neighbor guy started kissing. They eventually moved to the bedroom where they continued to kiss and play with each other. They ended up naked and I watched as the neighbor guy fucked my wife in my bed. I thought forsure I would divorce her immediately when I found proof, but instead I found it rather erotic and my dick became extremely hard. The sight of my wife being pleasured and the moans she was making were unbelievable. I stroked myself as I continued to watch the video. I eventually scanned all of the video and only found one other time where she and the neighbor guy fucked. I copied those two videos to my phone and now I regularly watch them and masturbate. It has been months now, and I still haven't told my wife I have proof of her infidelity. We continue to live like we did with her thinking she holds a secret. Little does she know.
My wife did not need to cheat. We had an arrangement with him that he could have fun with her whenever possible and especially when I was away on business and he could then fulfil his promise to look after my family in any which way. I loved the arrangement as I could be sure my wife and our two kids would be well look after and my wife would not miss me while I was away and could rely on some very discreet, loving and very special service from our neighbour.
When I am done inside my wife she grabs her panties and puts them between her legs for come dont get all over. Well one day I could not get a hold of her so i left work rushed home the bedroom door was locked took her a minute to open . When she finally did open she was in sweats no underwear on underneath. I look on the floor and there a pair of cum soaked black panties. I was like what the fuck she says there from us last night I look out my bedroom window and I can swear I see some guy running down the street buck with his close. She kept denying it but to this day 10 years later I still believe someone fucked her. Once a cheat always a cheat cause it ain't the first
It seems that we have done to this ourselves as a society. No excuses here and I am writing this as a single man btw. Relationships and marriage are not what they use to be. I just lost my girlfriend of 8 years just this week. We had a great relationship as neither one of us wanted to get married again. The sex was great all those years until recently. I started to notice about a year ago she was becoming "less loving" and distancing herself. Sex became less and less frequent until there is basically none. There was no infidelity on my part as I stayed faithful to her. This week she told me that she's just not happy. So, I told her I that I felt that she was having an affair, which she denies.
She said that it was best that I probably find someone else more my type (good line). I am heartbroken to say the least but I guess I will have to pick up the pieces and move on.
My wife is a marriage counselor and sex therapist and I am one of her sexual surrogates. The thing we hear most often is "If only he/she had told me about it." The couples that get back together in a more open relationship we seldom see again. The ones that swear "I promise, I will never do it again," generally repeat and we either see them again and again, or we see them in the divorce announcements in the paper!
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It's one thing if your Swingers, but to fuck around and not tell you about it. Now I know all about Girls Night Out once a week and she tells me about it and I can fuck her friends, Then I found out she fucks a guy almost every day when I'm at work, She has never said a work to me, hacked her email that is my name and down loaded it and there are 10 separate hard drives if she tries anything. Now the guy she was seeing left town and haven't seen 1 email from him. We just talked. Now I hold out on her and if I don't like what she has done I buy a car or motorcycle. Damn I have 7 cars & 5 motorcycles and she may have not cheated but if I think she did? It's time for a new toy.
All women are cheating whores, some just haven't been caught yet.
God damnit if that ain't the truth!
If my wife wanted some side strange fun I have no problem with that just tell me for gawd sakes. Lieing, sneaking and playing me a fool is the part I have issue with. We talked all this out before we got married and she is well aware to this day I'm behind what ever she wants to do to bring happiness in her life.
Rajah!!! And still my girl does it behind my back! Well, I had enough of the lies so I walked away from her. Who's crying now, huh, cheater?
I told my wife the same exact thing before we got married. I told her if she ever screwed around, I wouldn't be pissed about her fucking someone else, I would be pissed because she lied and made me look like a fool. I told her if there ever came a time when she wanted to fuck someone else, just let me know and we'd work something out. And I told her that if she fucked someone in the heat of the moment and didn't talk to me first, that was still fine as long as she called me or told me immediately after it happened. But if I find out from someone else that she fucked around, she'll be packing her bags, because her ass hitting the road.
How fucking simple, yeah?? And she still does it and thinks she is sly.
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Married house wife/ soccer mom here, lets face it, if men meaning our husbands did their job, us women wouldn't be looking elsewhere. I need excitement in my life, and a good cock too. I secretly love being treated like a dirty slut, I've told my hubby, I tried to give him road head but he was worried about getting caught. Or even sex in public, he won't even touch me, so yes I looked elsewhere until I found someone
My wife acts like she doesn't want sex from me. We have sex a few times a year. We're mostly tired from work. I wonder if she's cheating because she stays late at work most nights and doesn't talk about work much.
Trust me, she's cheating.
That road goes both ways. My wife doesn't want to do anything spontaneous either.
So I guess you'll be looking elsewhere to get laid too
So she is getting a bit on the side, no big thing so don't be a prick about it unless it gets out of hand as long as its only one or two other guys and they are nice to her let it be just ensure she is on the pill and hope they are clean
I'm glad you caught her, and thanks for the ideas. My wife and I are still pretty new (married 6 months), but I suspect that she might be cheating. Most of her friends are male, and I don't like any of them really, but she's known them for years and still goes out with them for lunch, coffee, and even meet ups at their apartments. I wouldn't think of any foul play, except for the fact that she dresses up when she goes out. Short skirts, tights, pumps, etc. One of these days I'm going to find a way to catch her, because I have my suspicions.
Yeah, keep in mind, depending on what state you live in, you can be arrested for recording video without consent of one or both parties, even in your own home. A buddy of mine did the same thing when he suspected his wife was cheating. The man she was fucking turned around an sued him for it.
I have a security camera on my front door with a sign about being recorded on the property. So technically they were both informed of video recordings. That is all I need legally.
I know my wife is fucking another guy, or guys, however I've never been able to catch her.
I've found what I believe is cum stained panties in the dirty clothes. I work third shift, and there's been mornings I've come home horny, and get naked and go down on her. Her pussy will smell like morning after sex. You know her juices and some ones cum thats been fermenting in her pussy all night. She never trys to stop me from going down on her, so that makes me wonder even more.
When my wife and I first got together we decided then to have an open relationship. Our rules were simple. We couldn't openly flaunt the lover, such as no family events or gatherings. We could not decline an engagement with the other to be with a lover, and we could not introduce or otherwise invite the other lover into our home. At first it was great. I had several women I was fucking and my girlfriend only had one other guy. Then we got married and over the years the sex has slowed down. Today I have only one lover whom I work with, and she has that same lover she always did. I know his name, and that's all I know. Sometimes she will call during the day and tell me she'll be late getting home. I dont ask because I know she's going to fuck her lover, but that's ok, because that's when I normally go home with my lover.
What I love about my wife is that she freely admits she fucks other guys. We've been married for 15 years. We were out with another couple and they asked what our secret was to staying so happy. She said, "He doesn't get bent out of shape when I have a friend in bed while he's at work."
The numbers years back showed where more men screwed around than women. Over the last several years the numbers for men have stayed the same, but women numbers have increase, now they are about even. The truth is more women are not screwing around, it that more women are starting to admit they screw around. Truth be told I bet most women do screw around. Out of everyone I know, I only know one guy who has screwed around. Almost all the women I know have screwed around at some point or another.
So jealous. I would love to have videos of my wife fucking around (which I'm sure she is). And I wouldn't confront her. I'd just sit back and enjoy the show.
Ditto
Women are sneakier than men are about this thing. I think they do it to let out their "inner freak" and do things with guys that they don't do with us husbands. They won't be judged by the other guy where they believe that we will judge them.
The whole question is, do you let her know verbally, do you keep it a secret, or do you let her catch you watching the video? Do you walk in on them?
If the husband enjoys the knowledge that his wife is getting some on the side and gets vicarious sexual pleasure from it, and if the wife keeps her dalliances in the “sport fucking” area without disruptive emotional entanglements, keep it secret. A variation would be to reveal the knowledge to the wife in a reassuring and supportive manner, give her the green light and multiply the excitement for both. That would require a good relationship, otherwise it could open a can of worms. Lots of variables but I totally get the intense eroticism of knowing a wife is getting private pleasures. We don’t own anyone.
That's called cuckolding dude. Look it up. It's all over the internet.