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Question for wives
A question for all wives.
When you think back about getting married to your man, do you think you got it right? When did you realize you got it right or realize you were totally wrong?
What I mean is.. is he than man that turned out to be everything you wanted or do you feel your real love may still be out there. I’ve seen many couples get married and thought these two are crazy in love with each other and you can see it in the look of their eyes. I have had friends wives flirt and make passes at me.
I have fought off the temptation several times.
Are you just winging it till your kids are out of the house? Please tell
My husband and I grew up together as best friends since we were very little. He was more of a girlfriend to me then anything. See he was born with a birth defect, that left him with a very tiny inverted penis and tiny testicles. He actually looked like he had a vagina.
At the age of 13 I discovered boys and sex. He also discovered around the age of 13 he enjoyed have sex with boys.
Anyways getting to the point here. I ended up pregnant at the age of 17. Since my parents and his were always good friends. They arranged for us to be married. Hope it would make a honest woman out of me, and hopefully turn him straight.
I'm here to tell you it didn't work. First of all we are totally in love with each other. The only sex I've ever had with him was oral. He'll use a strapon on me from time to time. But mostly I we both have sex with other men. In our eyes it's a perfect marriage.
Not sure what my wife would say after our 30 yrs together. 15 yrs ago she became my live-in sister (guys will know what I mean) when she hit menopause.
Was laying next to her in bed this morning thinking while stroking her lovely bare hip in her bikini panties, "Sis, here, hasn't touched me below the waste in 15 yrs, I wonder why I'm still here?"
My husband is okay, a good provider and father. But the excitement and novelty wears off after being married a while for many including me. I still flirt, and lust after guys at the gym, grocery store, pretty much anywhere. Would love some new cock in my life, but it isn't in the plans.
My first marriage ended in divorce with no kids, thank God. My second marriage happened when I was 36 and I do have a kid with him. I really love him, but fuck, life kind of sucks. He's a bit of a slacker. No motivation, though he does work some. I still think about other guys, a better life, regret marriage in general, etc.
With men it seems you get one extreme or the other. Either a slacker who does just enough (if that), or a full work horse who only cares to provide and neglects all else.