Clingy or what? WTF.
I just started seeing this guy Ted. We met through friends, and we've been out on dates 3 times a week for two weeks, but we're not living together or anything. He's definitely potential boyfriend material, but we're still early in the process, imo. I don't consider him a boyfriend at this point, though it's close.
Ted wanted to go out on Friday night, but I said I had plans. He seemed a bit mopey and sad about it, but I said we would spend Saturday together. Well, my plans on Friday were to meet up with a couple of other hot guy friends and get laid. We did that. They like pussy (I have that), I like dick (they have that). They are also friends too. I've known both of them for a couple of years and hadn't seen either of them in a while.
On Saturday Ted asked me what I did on Friday, did I have a good time, etc., and I told him the truth: I fucked two guys that I'm friends with from the gym. Ted responded like I kicked him in the balls or something. So odd. He then said that he felt like he was in love with me, and how could I hurt him like that, and I said, "We've only gone out a few times. We are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, right?" He said he felt like we were a couple and that he wants me to be his, no one else's. I said that sounds a little clingy and weird at this point. We've only been going out for two weeks.
There is a learning curve to every relationship, but I don't think Ted gets it. If he ends up being a boyfriend, I'll be faithful to him. Two weeks in? No, I'm not going to change my friends and way of life for him. I barely know what he is about as a person, and he should respect me for who I am.