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My boyfriend wants me to hit him during sex. Punching, slapping, kicking, stuff that would leave bruises. I can't do it because i'm not a sadist, but he absolutely loves this type of abuse when we're fucking. I don't know how to completely satisfy him. I'm worried he'll end up going to the hospital because i choked him out, or punched him too hard, too many times. It isn't wrong that i don't want to do that, right?
You be careful my mates boyfriend did this. He was covered in bruises after a couple of weeks of it, he went to the police and got full custody of their 2 boys. Some people wanna be bruised as evidence- not pleasure.
You are correct to please your partner,
Why not spank each other instead? Its a healthy endorphin stimulator, lots of fun and it will NEVER choke anybody!
I'm well past my S&M days, but I did that plenty in my 20s with a few people. I don't discourage it, but I'll just say that just about everyone I did it with was not terribly well adjusted mentally, and it came out in the relationships in other ways. Take care of yourself and your partner too. Be well.
Spank him hard while he is on top and your doing it.
Brass knuckles are a start .....