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I want to have sex with a bit of change in it
I have two kids and a diligent, faithful husband who cares deeply about me and the kids.
he can be annoying, but he tries everything to make me happy.
just one problem...we're not that good at sex.
it's always the same ritual.
i try to do some roleplaying for a change, but he says he doesn't really like it.
i started to do some pelvic exercises to make him feel good, plus im trying to lose some weight.
i ask him to put some more affection and time when we're cuddling, but it doesn't work and he just goes straight to "down there" and starts thrusting away.
after all that, i feel like we did it but without any romantic stuff, and it just makes me sad... .
how can i improve our sex life?
You can improve your sex life by sharing yourself with me.
I am 38, stay at home Mom, curvy I could lose 30 pounds but enjoy my life. It may not be for every woman and you did not say if you worked also. If you both work that can make it tougher for romantic love making but set aside a date night at least 2 times a month, maybe even stay at a hotel.
I have a little bit different approach when it comes to sex, my thinking is that men need to orgasm daily, they do not need romance, hugging, cuddling they need to orgasm. I make that happen for him daily and in return I have been cuddled when he gets home from work and later on when we go to bed. I have found that if I am extremely attentive to his needs then he never says no to what ever I want like kissing, cuddling, snuggling and all that stuff.
But you may not have the time and energy for that if you work as well so try the date night thing and rent a nice hotel room.
Try doing whatever originally sparked sexually between you two
Hmm, ok.
thanks!
What was it that originally sparked your sexual interest between you two?