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Are women meant to like Anal sex
Hi, i am a 27 year old woman. about 2 years ago while finishing my PHD, I began dating one of my lecturers, a man in his late 40's, the age gap did not bother me and I loved how intelligent he was, I think in turn having a much younger petite brunette on his arm appealed to his ego.
one aspect of our relationship I found hard was our sex life, he had a number of kinks that I found weird and not easy to get used to, at first anyway; principle among these was his insistence on anal sex, he was obsessed by it. He said he found it more intimate than vaginal sex and much prefered the tightness and naughtiness of penetrating me in my backside. This was new to me and at first I found being sodomised a strange feeling bordering on painful, and also quite degrading as its not (as I thought) 'what nice girls do'. I must point out he was also quite domineering during sex and in general life, but as a naturally submissive person i genuinely enjoyed this and have quite liked being told what to do by a man especially in the bedroom, incl the light spanking he would give my bum prior to any anal sex we had.
He would instigate sex 2 or 3 times a day which would always lead to ending in roughly 20 minutes straight of passionate anal sex with me usually in the doggy style position. As you can imagine I grew quite used to anal and began to really enjoy the sensation of being sodomised and having my bottom stretched wide. Within 4 months I would have multiple orgasms from our anal sessions and it became a very important part of my sex life. In turn he was very happy with me enjoying it nearly as much as him.
After 18 months he got bored of me and returned to his ex partner (a woman of similar age to himself). I missed him greatly but also really missed the anal sex, I would ring him when drunk for booty calls (I am really not proud of this) he would come round to my student house and we would have drunken anal sex, he would basically unload inside my arse as quickly as possible. His partner learned of this, forgave him but berated me in public on how i was a dirty woman, and what type of woman would want anal and not to contact him again.
I was shocked by this and I keep wondering maybe that's it's not normal for a woman to want anal sex or desire it. But I could not stop thinking about it, I really find normal vaginal sex boring now and can't orgasm from it. In desperation I have bought a large dildo which I have been soley using up my bottom to simulate anal sex, it's really helped and allows me to orgasm. Do men think it's weird if a woman likes anal sex or love it as much as I do? My female friends think i am strange and think I need help to get over this obession.
No it is not normal for a girl to want anal sex. She should only want sex in her vagina.
I'm in my 40's & have had heterosexual ANAL SEX with over 30 females in my life so far some even being very young teen girls who had an attraction for older men but the majority were adult women. I've been truly fortunate & gifted with never having a issue with the difficulties that many men face with females open to ANAL SEX. I can honestly say I have a way with females that I don't take for granted. But for the most part the majority of females I've had ANAL SEX with about 97% were first timers and trust me when I say that every single one came back for more. Surprisingly a lot of these girls had ANAL ORGASMS for their first time in trying ANAL SEX and didn't know it was possible. All in all I definitely can say without a single doubt I'm totally more into having ANAL SEX with women more so than vaginal sex.
I've been with a few women that preferred anal because they got a really intense orgasm from it. It also helps that you can go bareback without any unwanted pregnancy
Darling you are most men's dream girl, my wife and I have been doing anal for ten years we have been married for eight it is virtually the only position we use and it is so wonderful we do doggy or missionary where she holds her legs high however I love doggy it gives me the feeling of dominance.
Thank you for your comment, I just worry o am too obsessed. Glad I am not the only one.
I am 23 F and I love anal sex far more than having a cock in my pussy
Really that’s good, glad I am not the only one. Have you always been like that?
I have had multiple affairs, and all my women take it in the ass as a regular part of our sex life. A couple of them had not done it until I came along, but they also found they loved it and would experience multiple intense orgasms from it. Several of them cum hard merely from being fingered in the ass- and it is such a turn-on to do that to them in a public venue! So- nothing wrong with you sweetie- you are a keeper!
Hi this is the OP, Thank you, releived to hear it's not just me.
It's not really a matter of being meant to like it or not, it's just a matter of liking it. My wife and I have been having anal since before we were married. It started of occasionally then more and more frequently until now, anal is a regular part of sex. I even believe (though she'd never admit it) that she prefers anal to vaginal sex. Enjoy anal.
Thank you for your comment
Not really strange at all. If it works for you, don't mind what other people say. In reality, a lot my friends admitted they would never upfront say they were into anal in fear of being judged. I really think anal sex gets a bad a reputation since of course it will hurt if you don't lubricate properly or your partner is impatient to go all the way in right away.
Thank you for your comment, I appreciate that. Think I am over sensitive about it and what others think.