How long have you been with your spouse & side gf or bf??

Get rid of them and find someone you can be faithful to.

I was "the other woman" in a relationship once that lasted about a year. I was single, he was married, but we worked together. I really loved him and hoped that he would leave his wife for me, but he never did, because it would have destroyed him financially, or so he said.

The way we made it work (his wife never found out) was that we stayed off the grid: no email, no phone, no social media. We would just talk at work and make arrangements then. He would use a personal holiday or something on a weekday, so there was no income loss, I'd do the same, and we'd go to my apartment and fuck each other's brains out all day. We also did other things that felt like true love, like holding hands, going on dates, etc. Then he would go home to his wife and kids. We sometimes met on weekends, but it was a bit dicier, since his wife expected him to be home most of the time. Those occasions were rare.

I broke off the relationship eventually, because of his lack of commitment, coupled with the fact that I had met a new single guy (I'm now married to him). It is a bit tiring to be someone's mistress, and be alone at night. I enjoyed the tryst, but it was time for something better.

Maybe your husband will cheat on you and show you how it feels especially after you have kids. I hope so and then you will see how it feels and how it is for the kids. You broke it off because of lack of commitment; he already had a commitment, stupid.

I've been fucking my step daughter for a month. When the wife goes to work we fuck. My job doesn't require me to go to an office. So when its slow I just stay home. Plenty of chances for us to fuck. I pick her up from her community college so we often find someplace to fuck.

She is shy and introverted so she was too shy to even speak to me, fearing I would pick up on her sexual interest. She continues to pretend like nothing is going on. She would be a good poker player she has a good poker face. But what gave her away was she got sloppy sneaking in my room while I masturbate and shower. Since then I knew she wanted to fuck me.

You keep telling this same story all over the place; get a life and get a divorce sicko.

I have been having a sexual affair with my wife's best friend for over three years now. We are both near 50 , my wife lost interest in sex when she went through menopause at only 42 yrs old. After having a conversation with my wife's friend and me going into the fact that we had only had sex once in the entire last year she confided in me that do to the medication her husband was on for his blood pressure ,it left him impotent and they had been unable to have sex in months. I half jokingly said we could always take care of each other, she gave me this look of disbelief saying I'm your wife's best friend, that ended the conversation we finished our lunch and parted ways. Two days later I got a texted that simply said" really, do you think we can? it would have to only ever be sex, I love my husband. " I told her I loved my wife too but needed physical sexual contact again. She sent back I'm home now, can you come over? That was it, we had sex in their guest room it was awkward at first but quickly turned into raw sex with both of us giving and getting what we needed .She cried afterward telling me she felt terrible for cheating on her husband with me. We agreed it would never happen again. A week to the day she sent me a text" Home alone all day , please visit me". We no longer feel the guilt , my marriage has actually gotten better because I don't pester my wife for sex, she lets me know when and if she wants to and I accept that. We are very low key , made sure not to change anything in our lives. She still hangs out with my wife on a weekly basis and we have dinner out as couples. We are just filling a need in each others life.

I've been married for 18 year's I don't stay with other men for long, basically we have a few flings then I move on.