Heading in the right direction

She may want to watch or join in

Don't tell her, her sucking your dick is a very personal thing for a woman and for her alone if my partner admitted that to, I would never suck him again especially if another mans dick had been in his mouth and shot his sperm, I not bothered about another woman from previous relationships, I fact I think about my best friend sucking him off only a fantasy

Never tell her take it to the grave

She may like it

You don't know how your wife would react to you cheating on her, or is it more about getting head form another guy that worries you?

Actually -- what matters is --- how did you like it? I'm am an older married man and I love giving head and sucking nice clean cock. I think the men I suck also enjoy it.

How did this happen? Drunk at an office party? Pre set up meeting at his house?