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What is wrong with meh...
So I'm stuck terribly. I don't ever seem to get aroused. Heck I'm meant to be sexting someone right now but I'm sitting here with chattering teeth and weak legs trying not to laugh while trying to talk dirty and I'm like must.not.laugh...I just can't seem to ever feel any arousal & I feel like this has proven it all to me. Maybe a normal human would at least feel something at receiving nudes and videos but me? I guess I'm not normal...
It's mostly mental. Think we all have periods of lacking anything that gives us arousal or gets us going. Have to find something that gets you going in the brain so you can get going in other parts. When my marriage was in the crapper, and, I was under a lot of work stress, not much got me going...Unless I thought of things I did and do with my hot older sister, her body, flirty mannerisms, and how steamy-sexy she was/is.
Also helps to keep company of the opposite sex, if only to view them and see things maybe didn't see before. I'd go out to some local pubs and chat with women, and find myself looking or thinking about things never did before. You may just need a change of pace..
Nudes and videos don't do shit for me either. I have to actually be physically touched to get turned on.
Okay, I believe that's why God created alcohol and drugs. When my old lady isn't feeling sexual, I just slip her a little extasy and a pint of vodka, and she turns into Super-Nymph. You might give it a try sometime.
I did try that but it only meant I was even more aware of the fact that he was turned on by me and I had somehow pushed him go the point and I was sat there very aware of the fact that I felt nothing and then I thought if I had enough it may change things but alas it made no change but meh I guess I'm just weird like that haha...thanks for everything though.
Have you ever considered that you might be Asexual before? It's completely normal it just is present in a very little amount of the population.
There are lots of resources on the Internet on this topic and I encourage you to go and explore.
I actually thought I was asexual for most of my life. God the sexting was a fail. It upset me in one go also mainly because I didn't feel anything and it's weird I was kind of feeling sexually attracted to said person beforehand in more ways than one...in fact he was the only person I have ever felt that draw to...plus I can apparently sext well enough to get him off....without feeling anything at all myself....which is saying something as apparently he's meant to be extremely good at it. I feel like a bit of a fake about it all maybe because of how much I managed to turn him on & just about unravel him when I felt nothing at all myself and was going through the notions of saying things I write about (I get asked to write detailed sex scenes for people that cause white the stir). So yeah.