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So a few months ago my husband and I thought it would be a good idea to join a swingers website with the goal of spicing up our sex life etc. As it turned out my husband "M" wanted to back out after we had set up a meeting with a potential couple and asked me to remove our profile from the website.....well the male, "P", wanted to meet regardless, was very persistent, at first I tried to resist, telling him I didn't want to put my marriage in jeopardy etc but then gave in. P has a live-in girlfriend as well. After our first face to face meeting we decided to have sex, he was so hot and not gonna lie the attention was very flattering, we met again several times over a month and a half.
Since we met on the swingers site P was still very interested in the lifestyle and wanted to stay "active" so we decided to create our own profile as a couple on the site so we could meet other couples...we met a few and hooked up with one couple for "soft play" (not full on sex, everything but)shortly thereafter everything spiraled, P's girlfriend started digging into his yahoo account and found several messages from me (which was our only way of contacting each other)P had mentioned previously that his girlfriend did not trust him (I'm assuming he's cheated before)and because of this he was always careful and deleted all of my messages, couldn't add me as a FB friend, and couldn't add me as a contact on his cell, all perfectly understandable considering his situation, or so I thought) So I'm guessing P was throwing up some serious red flags, hence the digging, and of course P's girlfriend contacted me via e-mail telling me how she was going to expose me as a cheater to everyone, also she found messages from one of the couples we met while on the swingers web site, how they'll back her up if she needs them to. Additionally P's girlfriend created fake e-mail accounts with P's name, in an attempt to try and message me, which led me to believe she didn't really know much about me beside my name and e-mail address and was fishing for more info.
P's girlfriend then started texting me on my cell, (P did have my number, just never used it) I guess realizing she wasn't going to get the reaction out of me she was hoping for with e-mailing her threats...at that point I had to block P's girlfriend from calling my cell and then warn her she was harassing me, that I would file a PFA against her, ugh it was horrible.
Anyway I don't blame P's gf for lashing out at me, I'm the other woman but ultimately it does take 2, but it's easier to put all the blame on me and she's still with P as far as I know (as of 7 days ago when everything fell apart). P has yet to contact me, I'm guessing I'll never hear from him again, which is probably for the best. So far P's gf has yet to expose my cheating to my husband, and I don't want to let my guard down, and yes I'm terrified, we do live in a small town and people looove to talk about scandal, well who doesn't really?
Even before we were married, I made it clear to my wife that I wanted to be more naughty than normal. To test her I took her to nude beaches with me. After a while I got some of my friends to showed up and act surprised to run into us. When I stole her from her previous boyfriend, I learned he used to share her with two of his friends. So I was pretty sure she was honest about not have issues swinging with me once we got together.
Once at the swingers club it was me with the nerves and second thoughts. I found I really loved having her overexposed, but apprehension gripped me about taking the next steps I brought her there for. The sausage filled crowd didn't help as the throng of men soon made it so I couldn't see her at all at times. I had been expecting a nearly equal number of men and women. I was very wrong. My wife was one of the few women and the youngest by far.
My expressed hope going there was she'd have sex with me and at least one other person. Instead, she was gang banged by the plethora of single men there and I was left to watch and occasionally check on her.
By the time we left she had been ran through beyond either of our expectations. It was the first time I'd witnessed someone truly Dick Drunk. Normally conservative in dress she gladly streaked to the car, slept naked as I drove and streaked in the house when we got home.
Even though I got everything I wanted, going in, I arrived home feeling gipped.
My husband of six years kept pestering me to go to a swingers dance just to see if it's something we'd like to try and make up our minds about joining.
Well Saturday came around and 9 in the evening we went to the club he wanted me to dress no bra and a short mini skirt and the top he picked out barely covered my C breasts and clearly didn't hide my nipples.
We got in the club and I got a lot of attention right off the bat, even got asked to dance before we even had our first drink.; I told my husband I wanted a Singapore sling and I went out a danced with this guy after asking my husband if he minded and he nodded go ahead. Well once out on the floor out of sight he took hold of me started in grinding himself against me making my skirt rise and took hold of my bare ass holding me tight against him as he got harder and harder and the next thing I know he's leading me off the dance floor down this hall way and he pins me against the wall and fucks me hard, cumming in me in just a matter of a few minutes. He got me and he left.
That night I got fucked by 11 guys over the time we were there and got seven phone numbers stuffed into my panties. Closing time 3 am I couldn't find my husband and I got a ride withy two guys who also got me on my living room couch twice each and the one guy wrote his phone number on my breast.
My husband got home around 10 the next morning and I asked him if he had fun he said it was ok and asked me the same question all I told him was I loved dancing for you don't take me out much and asked me if I'd like to join and I said I'd think about it.
It seems you really enjoyed cheating on your husband. I cheat on my wife and love it. Let things calm down and try to contact P again, or search for another cheating man. Good luck.