Account Login
On ThePornDude Hall-of-Fame
Very much so
My new boyfriend cant handle knowing about my sexual history. I feel trapped in the way that I cant be open and honest, but only because he doesnt want to know. My sexuality is a huge part of my past and a huge part of who I am presently. I want to be seen and I want to be able to known intimately. I dont want to be judged or shamed, I dont need him to get off on it either. I just feel like how can you truly know someone otherwise. Lets say it was a hobby. Or lets say it was my education. Lets say it was anything. He cant appreciate that I dont want to hide anything or lie about my past? I dont think this is going to work out. Where's my ex?
21 days
Sharing could be dangerous. ex wife knew about some of my past but not all of it and i never volunteered either!
on the flip side ex gf LOVED hearing about in detail. she wanted to know EVERYTHING and it actually turned her on more. its a 2 sided coin
My now ex and I went to marriage counseling. During that time she revealed she had a long term sexual relationship with her older brother, the one I can't stand, from when she was too young to get pregnant until she had her first period and was afraid to get pregnant. I filed for divorce
If your sexual side is that important. Your guy should enjoy all the great sex you are having with him. You don't have to tell him every detail of your past. You don't have to tell him how many guys you had. You can share with him how much you enjoy sex with him. Without having to tell your whole history