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Is this wrong?
My wife's father has Alzheimer's and is in a memory care unit in an assisted living home. He can sometimes be fine and remember us when we visit, sometimes not at all. almost a year ago my wife started to visit him multiple times a week. She said it was because she thought that seeing him more often helped him remember her.
It is not a far distance and I was ok with it but recently I found out that my wife has been masturbating and on more than one occasion fellating her father.
Her sister said she went to visit and her father asked her if she was going to "Do him oral" that visit. She found his question odd and over the course of more questioning thought it was something where a staff member may have been abusing him. She hid a camera in his apartment and in the next week she found my wife, ( her sister) was the one masturbating her father and one day sucking his cock too.
She told me this rather than confront her sister. I told my wife what I knew and she broke down and tearfully described how she felt she lost her father and how he was so emotionally lost. She said the one time she visited he though she was her mom who had dies 4 years earlier. Her father talked to her as if she was his lost wife. His whole manner and being was happier. My wife said it made her feel so much better when her father was so much happier. He was in a different time.
This happened again and her father asked her to dance and they did but he grabbed her ass and asked if she wanted to "Play around" My wife realized he thought she was her mother and he wanted sex. She said he pulled her into hie bedroom and took out his penis and her, " come on...you know what I like. "
My wife thought denying him or breaking his thoughts right then would be horrible, and he was getting more aggressive, so she took ahold of his cock and stroked it. She said it didn't take long and he had an orgasm. Once he did he was tired and relaxed and she cleaned him and left.
This happened again and my wife began to feel as if pleasing him was what a good daughter would do. Things progressed to him expecting her to do more and she sucked him off. She said now she isn't sure if he thinks she is his wife or just likes the sex, because every time she visits now he hugs her then unzips his pants and exposes himself.
She feels trapped, but still thinks it is just showing love for a parent.
Is this wrong? Or is it love as my wife says? Is her father the one in the wrong? It's a confusing situation and her sister is still upset and won't talk to her.
I hope my daughters take such good care of me in my old age
I think its a beautiful gesture. Giving her father the best send off a man could ask for.
Id be a happy husband too cause I never minded sharing my wife's pussy or mouth. But knowing it was her own father would make me push her into more interactions
My mother was being fucked by her carers at the home we put her in after she developed dementia! I was about to go crazy when I found out but in mum's one moment of being sane she told me to calm down and that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the young lads at the care home! I do have my day's you know Richard! I still had to say something to them but not as you would think! I told them that mum had told me that she enjoyed them fucking her and told them to tell her that I'd said goodbye to her and left then to fuck her! Two of the guys stood either side of her bed and told her that I'd gone before explaining to her that it was her fun time! They wheeled her bed into another room where there were two other men, one of them sat her upright and pulled her top over her head and laid her back down and then pulled her bottoms off and opened her legs restraining them into a special mechanical device, in turn they all fucked her pussy and then her arsehole while I watched
Let it go if you want to save your insanity and gain your freedom. find the positive outcome of her involvement. I am not an angel or devil. I had similar experience. at the time of the involvement, responding to sex was the only thing on my mind. Deep regret followed. I am only a human. I can resist a little then cave in. I was trapped between customs and religion.