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I think my wife and I are inevitably headed towards divorce. We’ve been married for over 12 years, haven’t had sex in over a year, and even before then it was rare. I’m not sexually attracted to her any longer and haven’t been for quite some time if not for our entire marriage. She doesn’t have a nice body at all and did a great job at hiding the fact even when she was 20 pounds lighter and better in shape than she is now. I think I even felt trapped into marrying her because she blindsided me on only our second date with an “I love you”. I was already 40 years old at the time, had fucked my way through half the country, and was ready to settle down. Now we have a 10 year old, a house, two cars, and everything that goes with it. Except for love and sex. Our relationship has become more like a business partnership.
Apr 7
Yo...there is LIFE after a divorce. Just slip out the back, Jack...and set yourself FREE !!!
Jesus Christ this might as well have been me typing this because I'm damn near in the identical boat. With me it was more so her getting pregnant and me realizing I didn't want to be a part time dad. Things were going smooth at that point so I was like f*** it. I had played around and had f*** buddies but she came along and it felt like a nice change of pace having an actual gf again. But I'm big on kissing and she was never a great kisser and the sex was mediocre but I figured it was a small trade off. Now, I feel differently and to top it off we've almost grown different ideologically and now we're just business partners. We can't even see eye to eye on child rearing. I flip flop between "I've made it this far so..." and "we probably won't make it til the end of this year." Just had a small dust up tonight so I'm leaning towards the latter at this moment.
I divorced as soon as I found out my ex lost her virginity to her older brother !!! I never liked my brother in law and as soon as I found out he's been a child molester since his teens and got my ex to have a full blown four year relationship with him and she was stupid enough to go along with it instead of telling their parents, I went and gave some random lawyers my hard earned money to set me free from that kind of miserable drama.
I am traumatized but 😊 happy.
Best thing I ever did for myself (lucky we had no kids) shortly afterwards I became an Expat. Talk about a world series style double play. Liquidated everything and reinvested outside the USA, just in the nick of time and avoided that convicted felon that is now president. The ex wife lost her 15 year job because of the EEO cutbacks for being a woman in a mostly male environment.