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I'm 26 and single and have a good job as a paralegal. I want to settle down but I just haven't found the right guy. I'm no model, but above average looking for sure--fairly pretty face, decent tits, fairly fit, and have a little height at 5'9".
My friend suggested that I try a dating site to meet single guys. I did, and I was surprised at the response my profile received. Lots of interest. The thing is that the only time I have for dates right now are on the weekends. I made a date with a white-collar guy (Guy #1) to meet for coffee at lunch on Saturday. It was not 30 minutes later that another guy (Guy #2) asked me out for dinner that same night. He was a blue-collar type, tattoos, but I didn't want to miss out on the opportunity to meet a contender, so I said okay to him too. A day later another guy (Guy #3) asked me out. I said I could do Sunday. He said sure, and we set a date for Sunday afternoon. He looked pretty good, but a red flag is that he's currently unemployed. He is allegedly an IT guy.
On Saturday I went out with Guy #1 and he was literate and very sweet. We had a nice time having coffee and getting to know each other. My apartment was literally two blocks away, so we went there to continue to chat. I hadn't had sex in months, so I hoped he picked up on the cue. He kind of did, but I had to bring it up and ask him. He said okay, and we had sex. He was very gentle and sweet. I had to tell him to lay off all of the kissing, as we just met and lovemaking would come later when we developed deeper feelings. I just wanted to fuck him that day. He was sweet, but a little nervous, but he gave it to me pretty good and I was satisfied. We chatted a little more and he left. He asked for a second date, but I said I'd get back to him soon.
I literally had about three hours from the time he left to go on my date with Guy #2. We met at a restaurant. He pulled up on a motorcycle, and I've never dated a type like that before. Something didn't quite connect. I could tell he really liked me, but honestly he was lacking smarts on my end and I wasn't sure if it would ever work. I like guys who have vocabularies larger than a 6th grader and have read a book at some point. He was ruggedly handsome, though, so I invited him to my place. I didn't have to ask him for sex, as I could feel that he wanted it. He wanted to fuck me bad. I let him and wow, that guy could fuck. The funny thing is that he saw the empty condom wrapper by the nightstand by my bed from Guy #1 earlier in the day. I just told him that it was old and I hadn't cleaned the room in a while. I didn't tell him I fucked someone else a few hours prior. He didn't care so much, as long as he got some too, and he fucked my brains out. He was a total animal. He went home later that night. He asked me for another date too. I said maybe.
I slept well, but the next morning I needed to meet Guy #3. We went out to lunch and he was a bit snotty and arrogant for a guy who is unemployed, but he was smart and handsome, so he had that going. We went back to my place as he is living with his parents, but we fucked and he by far had the biggest dick, but his performance was pretty average and he has that unemployed thing going. He asked for a follow-up date too, and I didn't lie and said that I'd like to date a guy who has a job, so no.
So it is currently between Guy #1 and Guy #2. I like Guy #1 from an intellectual perspective, but Guy #2 is way better at sex. Now none of these guys know that I fucked three guys including them that weekend, but what they don't know won't hurt them. These were first dates. However, they don't know that I've been asked out by two other new guys this week (Guy #4 and Guy #5) and that I might go out with them too. I haven't decided.
I'm not trying to be a slut or anything, but I'm getting a lot of dating interest and I still haven't found anyone with the whole dynamic for which I am looking. I want a guy who is smart, handsome, has a great job, makes great money, and can pound pussy like a sex addict.
It might take me a while to find that guy.
You fuck every guy you meet. That's a definition of a slut. Before you get serious with a guy, you need to tell him that.
I met my wife of now 12 years on a dating site. I asked her how many people she dated before me, and she couldn't give me a number other than 25-30 over a period of four years. She was picky about committing to a long-term relationship. (I ended up being the guy to marry and make babies with her.) Most of her dates lasted 1-3 meetups before she moved on. I asked her how many of those guys she fucked, and she estimated maybe 75%.
Sex is fun, enjoy. I sure wish it was as easy for guys to have sex as it is for girls. I'm good looking, fit, athletic body, older in my mid 60s so that is going against me. I've been successful on only 1 or 2 first dates, usually it takes 2 or 3 meetings to fuck.
Enjoy. No need to tell anyone how many guys you fuck, you be you and have a great time.