My wife took a lesbian lover
We're both in our early 50s and have been married almost 30 years, no kids. Our sex life was very good when we were younger, but slowed down as the years went on, which probably isn't unusual. Earlier this year, my wife confessed to me that she'd been having an affair for almost two years. I was shocked, but even more shocking was when she revealed it was one of her girlfriends from her book club. For whatever reason, the fact that she was having an affair with another woman didn't really bother me. We are still in love and have sex a couple times a month and have no plans to separate. She goes out with her lover for dates once a week or so, sometimes coming home late or staying over at her house. I've met her lover and she's a sweetheart. She's about ten years younger than my wife and is attractive with a great personality. And she makes my wife happy, so I can't complain about it too much. I never thought I'd be sharing my wife with another woman, but here we are.
Nov 8
Your the Fool. There is way more poking going on. DUH!!!
If there is, there is. Since I originally posted this, she's also allowed me to take a lover as well.
As long as everyone is happy with the arrangement, I don't see any issue.