Hooking up with an older co-worker
I recently started having sex with an older co-worker.
I'm 25 and married for two years. After we got married and moved in together, my husband purchased a gaming system and is also obsessed with college sports.
During football season, he will travel 2 hours with his friends to watch Georgia play home games and will come home very late on Sunday. Due to partying all night long! He get's home in time for me to do his laundry before I go to bed. I'm an accountant and I can't be up all night and look tired all the time.
This past summer Joe (not real name) is one of the upper managers and invited our division to his lake house for a summer party. My husband and I attended but of course he found the liquor and was watching baseball with the guys. Joe and I had our first conversation and he's very flirty. He also let me know he lives alone & single. I'd heard the story from other co-workers, his wife and long time partner lost a battle with cancer 7 years ago. The company supported his time off and took up donations.
We exchanged phone numbers and message often. We never email or message at work. I started meeting him for lunch during the week and I'd mentioned my husband would be gone for the weekend. He invited me to spend the day with him because he had no plans.
Something inside me knew the motive but I wanted it too.
As soon as my husband left with his friends, I packed a small bag with a swimsuit, extra change of cloths and left for Joe's.
I arrived and he greeted me at the door with a rose and a glass of wine. It didn't take us long to move to his bedroom and have amazing sex.
That was a month ago and we're still having sex.
I didn't want to sound like a crazy clingy person but after all these weeks of amazing sex and developing a connection. I asked what is he looking for.
He told me if I was content on what he have and keeping it on the DL he is too.
However, he also told me if I was single, he would pursue me because we have a connection.
I believe him because we've spent a lot of time together and I don't think he's just looking for side fun.
You silly woman obviously you wanna be with the dude you’re cheating on your husband with good God, divorce your alcoholic husband, you are make your live more complicated than it needs to be. I always hate it too when they use the excuse I don’t want to hurt or destroy my family newsflash you did when you cheated on the person with another person.
Enjoy, I am male and love extra marital sex. There is definitely a taboo nature to it so the orgasms seem to be so fantastic. I am so glad there are guys like your husband. Let's us married guys that enjoy sex get some extra fun.