An excerpt from a letter my wife wrote
An excerpt from a letter my wife wrote to her first bull when their relationship ended.
"We had such a good thing going. I don’t understand why you chose to upset the status quo. Although we were both married, you were my best friend and frequent sexual partner. I loved being with you, both emotionally and physically. I just wasn’t in love with you. I am happily married woman that enjoyed having sex with you. I am sorry if I ever gave you the impression that I would ever leave my husband and run off with you. That was never my intention. You had to be aware that I participated in our relationship with the full support of my husband. Yes he knew everything. Were you so blinded by passion as to never question how I was able to be available so often and under such short notice or able to spend the night with you when your wife was out of town? I love my husband and intend on always being his wife and a mother to our children.
Unfortunately, since the incident, we can no longer continue to have the relationship that we once had. For now, we should restrict all our communications to email. Do not call, text or approach me. Please respect that boundary, it is for both of our protection. I sincerely hope that you can repair the damage you have done to your life and possibly reconcile with your wife. "
My wife never hide anything from me I knew that she had boyfriend's on the side we had an agreement that she could be with other men as long as it didn't interfere with our marriage. I listened to her on the phone talking to her lovers and she was very open with them and I knew that she had feelings for them she isn't the type of woman who can just fuck someone one time she has to really enjoy being around him and want to have sex with him. It was hard at first hearing my wife telling a man that she loved him and she will see him later. But that's just the way she is.
I've found communication that my wife has with past lovers.
Not so pissed as she cheated and lied.
What upset me most was the level of communication she had with them. She shared her feelings, thought and was so honest with them.
My wife has had seven lovers over the course of our marriage. Every one of them have been emotional as well as physical affairs. I know it sound counter intuitive, but I don't think I would respect her and consequently lover her, if she was only doing it for the sex. If you want your wife to fuck other men, you should expect her heart to follow.