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Finally through the hell that is menopause
The year plus of occasional hot flashes and night sweats are over. The baby-making factory is officially closed. I'm 48 and divorced, like a lot of my friends. There is good and bad.
The bad is that my libido isn't as high as it used to be. Hormonal changes leaves me a bit drier down there. When I do have sex, the bottle of lube I carry around is a necessity. I also can't take big dicks like I used to. They hurt.
The good is that there is no more worrying about pregnancy. I never did well on birth control pills and the IUD sucked. I hated all of that. To finally get to fuck and simply enjoy it is a weird liberation that is a blessing. I've been sexually active since I was 14 and trying not to make babies was a constant chore.
A good friend of mine is dating a younger guy (20s) and her boyfriend has a few friends. I've fucked a few of them, even though some of those guys have girlfriends. We have discreet fuck parties. They say I'm a much better fuck than their girls. I'm kind of proud about that. I'm old, but not dead, and I'm fit and can still bring it! And to receive their seeds without worrying about making babies or being on birth control is damn awesome.
It's a bag of pros and cons, but I'm happy to be post menopausal.
Menopause sucks I have been involuntary celibate for around 8 or 9 years,the wife has zero libido
That is a great post , thanks. Enjoy yourself.you sound like an amazing woman.