Happy but Horny
Im a 23 yr old female. My bf is boring during sex.
I'm not asking for much at all, nothing crazy, but he doesn't seem to catch on. I don't mind being dominant, but he can't even put it in by himself without my help. It gets exhausting essentially having to coddle someone through sex everytime just to still end up disappointed. I just feel like I do so much to pleasure him, but he has yet to make me cum by himself. Im always left rubbing myself after he cums. Everything else about him is lovely, but I've been so pent up trying not to snap at him because of it. Maybe more sex toys would help? Might be needed while he learns.
If you really care about him then teach him. Have an open discussion with him first and if he wants to learn go for it. If he thinks he is pleasing you and doesn't need to learn anything you need to decide if you want to stay with him. Myself I take pride in always making my partner cum before myself and if it happens the other way I always make sure to my her cum another way orally or round two or three.
Demand him to eat you out, forceably make him by locking his head between your legs tightly. How does this dude not enjoy eating you out? My wife can have her pussy eaten on demand! I even want to lick her asshole. I'd love her to be dominant for either of these! Her vagina tastes so good that I even steal her used panties.
69 is always a magical number! Woman on top 100%, make a mess directly into his mouth. No way he doesn't do it after tasting your honey!