My best friend and I share a porn folder
I talked them into it step by step over time... Nothing too pushy, just normalized talking about sexual topics with them first. Then I brought up sharing porn as a joke... and one thing lead to another, and now we share everything. *Everything*. We save what we like, and we share what we save. We both add to it. We separate things out, so if they like something but I don't, I put it in their folder, or vice versa. If we both like it, it goes in the common area. There's thousands of photos and videos in there by now. I can see everything they like, and they can see everything I like.
If you're curious, it's a network drive program of sorts called SeaFile. Think of it like Google Drive but you host it yourself anywhere in the world. And you can set a password to encrypt the folders with, so nobody but you and the people you trust with it can ever snoop around in there.
I get off to someone knowing what turns me on and what doesn't... knowing me and my kinks so deeply... No secrets. Nowhere to hide, nowhere to run.
Be sure no md5 files with underage images show up in any of your folders. HSA will be on your doorstep. The documentation says "..data stored there is subject to whichever laws and surveillance operations are practiced in the country the server and /or server operator is based." HSA regularly monitors known underage md5 files on all types of file shares.
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