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Me and my ways
Since as far back as I can remember I have always had unique and varying tastes when it comes to sex, fetishes and kinks; most of which I enjoy without any sort embarrassment or questioning it but then there are some which I enjoy completely and yet cannot seem to accept it as a part of me. It is a peculiar thing, to enjoying something which affects nobody else, shouldn't matter as it's part of a private life and is enjoyable to me and yet here I am several years later of self hate, shamefull and generally feeling horrid with myself. Why is it so, why do we as people attribute shame and hate to ourselves or others for what we enjoy. What some enjoy others won't though most others will cast judgement.
I myself am a toilet whore, something I both love and hate equally. I often think to myself "so what, it is what it is and I enjoy it so sod it" but then comes the shame and judgement from others and I crawl back inside my shell. Really what does it matter if I am so, doesn't affect or hurt anyone when really if you don't like such a thing why make others feel awful for doing so. If I like being dirty in my private life why does it matter to others, just move along and enjoy your own thing and let me enjoy mine.
The profane is part of what makes it so enjoyable
Agreed. Your kink isn't my kink, but, you're kink is okay. There's somebody out there for everybody, so, don't feel alone.