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Ok so I have a bit of a situation. I'm 32, married, kids. Marriage is ok but our sex life is lacking. Same old story, I know.
My work is great and I enjoy my co-workers. I work alot with HR due to the nature of my job. Specifically, there is a woman in that Dept., Amanda, who I think has been flirting and subtly coming on to me.
She is probably in her late 20s, maybe 28. Married for a few years but no kids. Heard from a co-worker that her husband is never around due to his work schedule.
Anyway, she has been overly nice to me over email, saying things like "you are the BEST" and " thank God for you" when I just do simple things for her and HR.
At first when I started work, we would have meetings and she's pop over to my cubicle. But the last two times we had to chat work stuff, she asked me to come to her office. There was not one single photo of her husband. A bit odd, right? She would play with her hair, smile a LOT, and talk about non work stuff to keep me there longer.
And then the kicker. During a happy hour with different coworkers, they were all joking that Amanda likes me. I asked if that was really the case and they wouldn't admit anything.
Look, I like Amanda too. She's beautiful and funny and smart. If I had the chance i would probably bang her. I've never cheated but tbh, her flirting and liking me has made me feel human and alive again. The other night, I had a dream about her, now she's on my mind quite a bit.
So now, what to do. I don't want to put my job at risk. But holy fuck do I need some these days. She has a great rack and a nice ass. Dammit I'm confused. Any thoughts appreciated!
Have you even bothered to work on your marriage? I see husbands and wives complaining about their sex life being boring and it usually turns out that they stopped trying in their marriage. They just got bored and started looking elsewhere without even putting any effort into their marriage. It's kind if sad and pathetic really. You must've loved your wife at some point or you wouldn't have married her. Try fixing your marriage before you decide to go astray. Also agree with what others here have said about putting your job in jeopardy over some enticing piece of ass that would likely be little more than a short fling. It's pretty rare that these type of extramarital relations last long term and if it ends badly, she works in HR and she'll have you by the balls quite literally. Stop thinking with your dick.
You're worried about your job? What about your marriage. Your priorities are defiantly screwed up.
Her "great rack and nice ass" will NOT pay your bills ! Think with your big head, NOT the little one !
First of all, despite what society feels, relationships with co-workers are okay unless the handbook explicitly forbids it. However, she works in HR and could easily get you in trouble or terminated if things don't work out well. What do you and your wife do during sexual activities? Maybe find something new that is of mutual interest.
That girl in HR sounds super hot. I would have a hard time resisting. But I think you'll get more joy from getting more intimate with and creating a good sex life with your wife. She will be happier and you'll be happier without the stress of an affair going on. You'd have to manage how to hide that affair. Not good for your peace of mind. Yeah it would be exciting as hell to have an affair with that busty flirty girl but long term it never ends well. She will tell her coworkers. They'll talk all the time about what you are doing. Not a happy ending. That's my 2 cents.