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Thinking of cheating on my husband
My husband cheated on me in the past, when I found out our marriage almost ended but eventually I forgave him. Since that happened I have to admit my husband has been behaving very good, he is always helping around the house, he is loving, buys me stuff and I think the whole thing truly changed him.
However I have to admit ever since it happened Ive been wanting to get revenge and get back at him doing the same thing. I know it sounds irrational because I forgave him and hes truly changed but I dont know, I cant help but feeling anger every time I remember how I felt when I found out about his cheating and how it happened.
To make things worse, after all this time finally a man showed up who is perfect for my plan, he is a guy with whom my husband works, and he comes to the house once or twice a week. I started looking at him, almost flirting, and he responded. Im an attractive woman and I know I just have to give him a signal and I know for a fact he will make his move on me; if he does, I would let him fuck me in my own house when my husband is not here.
I dont know what to do, if somebody can give me a good advice before I do anything crazy Id appreciate it
As long as you're smart about it I say go for it! Obviously you can get sex from someone your husband doesn't know but that takes all the fun out it. Get it out of your system Hun I understand how you feel
It is better to just come out and say what you want to do . and explain why . trust me it would be better then the other .
Don't cheat for revenge. Don't cheat with someone your husband knows or works with. It will bite you in the ass later.
I've cheated on my wife multiple times. A few times with women but mostly with other men. I do it because I'm horny, the person is willing and my wife doesn't wanna have sex as much as I do.
Cheating with another woman is just because I'm attracted to them and I love the feeling of pussy. Cheating with a man is because they offer something my wife can never give.
She doesn't know. I'm not gonna tell her and I don't plan on stopping.
Revenge is not a good reason to cheat. Doing it with someone your husband knows is dangerous. I say go for it, but make s man will be very discreet. You should find that cheating will improve your sex life with your husband and possibly your marriage.
I think you would know if your husband was looking for this type of arrangement as the previous poster mentioned. Of course, it depends on your relationship. Personally, I know that my husband would never ever go for it. I get my needs met secretly and end up being a better wife for him.
Talk to the husband and get his permission: "You did it, can I? It'll make me feel justified, plus I like a guy who would be perfect! I'll tell you who AFTER you say yes." Simple as that, right? Thing is: your husband may have actually wanted this type of arrangement all along and just couldn't or hasn't talk to you about it.
He didn't tell you about his affair, and it hurt like fuck, by the sounds of it. You want revenge, but pain in a marriage is a pain for both of you. Talk it out - sounds like you guys have more to talk about. A LOT more! -------
Read between the lines: it's really NOT that simple
If you had not known, you would not hurt. For revenge, he has to know after the fact. But, is that really what you want? It sounds to me like you just want some different cock. That's pretty normal. Listen to some podcasts about swinging (Swinger Diaries, We Gotta Thing, Average Swingers, The Couple Next Door, etc) and then approach that the way they suggest.