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Wife is attracted to girls
My wife is attracted to girls. We have been married for just a short time and i told her prior to getting married I would probably never be ok with her doing stuff with girls. I have been hurt before (ex left me for a chick). And I know some of you are thinking "go for it dude!, threeway.. oh yay!", but my wife definitely doesn't want that and honestly i don't really either outside of a one-time fantasy which isn't on my top ten things i need to do before i die list anyways. It is tough because I want my wife to be happy, but know it would utterly destroy me if she had relationships with women. I also know that trying to keep her from doing it might very well drive us apart. I am very insecure especially about this situation and my insecurity makes my wife frustrated. Perhaps the most annoying thing is she says acts like I am a bad husband for not being ok with it. Thanks!
Your wife is a POS
So you knew she's into girls and yet you still married her then come here to complain that she's into girls.. Some men just deserve to treated as fools.
I'm a 28 Yo Woman and i understand your feelings. I think you were silly to have married her in the first place knowing she was Bi but that's your choice and you must suffer the consequences for that. As for you being a bad husband i wouldn't worry too much about that. My experience over time as proven to me that most Bi women expect their male partner to understand and be fully supportive of them indulging their sexuality but so many wont tell their partners/Husbands as they will not tolerate them being with other women.
Sorry man, she will cheat on you sooner or later( if she has not already done it). The life is too long to be spent with someone you cannot trust. Leave her when you are still in time. If you will have kids with her you will be stuck, and your life will be miserable. Find a decent girl that is worth spending the life with. This one doesn't seem to be the right one.
Dude, the fact that she's attracted to girls isn't a reason to let her have free-balling sex with girls!! No!!
Guess what? YOU are ALSO attracted to girls. But that doesn't mean that you should be allowed to indulge yourself from time to time with other girls, either.
We all have desires and passions that extend beyond our marriage from time to time. That's the point of marriage... to bind yourself to ONE person forever.
She'll be ok, and your marriage will too. Monogamy rules :-)