Convincing my wife
Trying to convince my wife to embrace the Hotwife lifestyle.
It’s been my fetish in past relationships too and I would love to continue with my current wife.
So far she’s not game.
I’ve teased her and we have role played during sex by talking dirty about scenarios that there would be a guy in bed with us. She teased me and talks about the things she would do with a guys big cock and it’s so hot.
But she can’t see herself going from fantasy to the real deal.
I won’t force her to do anything.
Anyone else in a similar situation?
I want it to naturally progress instead of pushing her
It was (probably still is) my husband's kink for me to have sex with other guys with him and for a while I did it and it was great sex, actually. But it started to take over our relationship at a point and it made me uncomfortable. I love a nice threesome, but I'm a middle class, somewhat vanilla type and like my sex caring and loving. He was into having me tied up and seeing me get roughed up. That was not my style, so we stopped it. It was great for a while, but it became too much of feeding his fetish.
Hey man. I’m in the same situation here. My wife loves and get off so bad to cuck/hotwife scenarios but still hasn’t taken the last step which I gave her a free pass to do. I have been almost pussy free the last 2 years or so. She has 2 bbc dildos that completely have gotten her used to being gaped and pretty much cucks me with them haha.
My first husband sort of pushed me into the lifestyle and honestly, I was repulsed by it and never enjoyed any of the occasions. that's why we divorced.