Cannot reach prostate orgasm

I'm 30, when I was younger I could lay flat on my back on the bathroom floor and finger myself for roughly 5 minutes and have the biggest hands free orgasm imaginable. Like my whole body convulsing out of control my butt hold clenching down on my finger on its own. This would last for several minutes. I've been trying everything under the moon to make it happen lately but I've had no luck! I've tried fingers, vibrator, hair brush with big handle. I search for my prostate but can't seem to find it towards my belly. Although there is a spot a few inches inside toward my back side that feel good when I rub it but nothing happens. I just got done trying a new vibrator and It just wasn't doing it. I'm sitting on the toilet now feeling like I have to poo. Any advice?

Jul 25
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