How can I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex?
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We get along well, we have fun, we're attracted to each other and have similar interests and values. The only issue is with sex. He has given me oral sex once, but it was only for about a minute and I did not have an orgasm as that's not long enough. Lately I told him, " I bet you'd be really good at oral sex, I'd love to teach you how to do it." He said, "I'm not quite ready to do that yet." I figured he did not know how to give oral sex to a woman, and so we've been using a vibrator first and then he fucks me. I have been loving this. So 2 days ago he told me he wanted to make love to me Friday night, but didn't because he knew I'd want to use my vibrator and he doesn't want to stand there for 30 minutes while I get myself off. I have to use it on myself, he doesn't use it on me. I suck his cock the entire time I'm using the vibrator on myself by the way while he stands next to the bed. Now I'm frustrated because he doesn't give me oral sex, and now he doesn't want us to use the vibrator "every time." He feels he's not good enough for me because I use my vibrator. He said, "One day that thing is going to replace me." Women need clitoral stimulation and I love to get fucked right after that. I enjoy sex with him, but I was spoiled by my ex husband who gave me an orgasm with oral sex first before we had intercourse every single time we had sex. I loved it and I miss this. I thought my boyfriend would enjoy seeing me cum period no matter how we do it. I am not looking forward to sex anymore and it's making me feel a bit depressed.18 days ago