Awkwardness Between My Husband And My Ex
I am writing mostly out of frustration, but will take any advice anyone has to offer.
I have been married for 2 years. We dated for 3 years prior to that. The way we met is through my ex (his best friend). While dating my ex, I met the man that is now my husband. My husband is (was) my ex’s best friend and we would all hang out. Things with my ex ended well, we both decided it was just not “right” for either of us and we parted friends. Shortly after we ended things, I started dating the man that is now my husband. All was fine during the time we dated and up until now in our marriage.
Recently, I found out that my husband has seen a few “videos” my ex and I made while we were together. When we made the videos (years ago), I sort of thought it was a mistake. Now I really regret it! There were only a couple and I truly believe my ex has deleted them a long time ago. I am not worried about them being posted anywhere. What I found out recently was that while I was dating my ex, and we were making the videos, he would show them to his best friend at the time (the man that is now my husband).
My husband recently told me about this happening years ago and now he’s acting “weird” about it with me and when both of us are around my ex (someone who is still his friend). The videos were pretty “explicit” – showing us having sex (including oral and anal).
I am so frustrated at these two guys! They are both grown men, acting like teenage boys!