My dad bought me a vibrator wtf?

My dad caught me masterbating, fingering, jilling off, you know. He couldn't see what I was doing but there was a knowing look, he knew what I was doing.
I live with my dad most the time and he is not good with daughter things, and this is one he wishes mum would have had to 'deal with'. So I was expecting an awkward chat about growing up, but he bottled it, which was more awkward. Then he gives me a present, cool I thought, what could it be, holy fuck it's a vibrator. As a present from my dad, wtf! How am I supposed to react?. Just to clarify it's a bullet vibrator not some rampant rabbit, or a huge cock, it's small and subtle, but still.
He explained how I am growing up and might get curious, and its totally normal, don't be ashamed etc etc, like it's my first time.
'Enjoy!' he said, and he's here if I need to chat, it's ok to talk about these things.
Ok I get he was trying to be cool, and nice, and open about things, but it's weird.
But just to check, how many girls out there have had a sex toy bought for them by their dad? Or any relative for that matter?

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  • I buy most my clothes online but I don't really have my own money so my dad either gives me the money or pays. I needed some new underwear, I chose what I wanted and asked him to put payment details in. It was quite a bit of money so he wanted to know what I was buying. I showed him all the pictures of the bras and panties on models which was totally weird. Who looks at models in underwear with their dad?
    Some were pretty sexy not everyday stuff, I could see his eyes light up a bit. But he paid for it all so yay.
    I also had another order I asked him to pay for, assorted uninteresting things, but I also added lube lol, he asked if I really needed it, I said yes sometimes, girls are not just wet all the time dad. He went bright red, of course he said and clicked order lol

  • I think your dad should cool out and not talk about it, unless you want to. Just accept the gift, use it, but you don't have to talk about it. My wife and I are raising a boy, and my wife mentioned that she looked at his chromebook's search history and knows he's watching porn. He's been jerking it, 'cause he's at that age. We bought him a Fleshlight and just put it on his dresser. We didn't say a word to him about it, though it's not there anymore and is obviously getting use. If he wants to talk about it, we will. But masturbation is private. If he uses his toy instead of fucking girls, we'll be very pleased.

  • 'not talk about it' now I'm confuses

  • Your dad just wanted to help you out. He'd noticed you watching him and your mom having sex several times.

  • Ha ha, never did that I'm afraid

  • So my dad has asked me if I have enjoyed using his gift. Very awkward. What am I meant to say... 'yes dad I masterbate all the time, and your vibrator has given me better orgasms than my fingers ever did....' how am I meant to react.
    I just said 'thank you...er....it's good'. Truth is it's quite addictive and it's getting used usually twice a day lol, can't really say that.

  • Be open with your dad because that is what he wants. He wants to know everything about you. Tell him that you are enjoying the vibrator and share your experience with him. It may be awkward at first but the more open and healthy conversations you have, the better it will become. More dads should be like this, you're very lucky.

  • You're probably right, it just seems wired right now

  • Weird even

  • Lol. It may be a weird at first because its not something you've not talked about before but it soon becomes normal and you start to relaxed about communicating with your dad in this way. Its great your dad is showing a healthy interest in you, so if i were you i would enjoy the attention. ;)

  • I had another go at thanking my dad at the weekend, I apologized for being awkward about it, clearly he had put the effort in. I gave him a big hug and a thank you. He made a joke by asking if I had worn the batteries out yet, I said not quite, and we both laughed. He also explained how he struggled to choose one and felt embarrassed, we laughed more, and he said if it's not good just let him know and he could get a different one. A very odd conversation

  • Its great you and your dad can laugh about it and sounds like its not as awkward now. But heres is the truth, your dad brought you that vibrator because he is sexually attracted to you, which is totally ok and not uncommon. He is probably hoping that he may get to see you using it.

  • Do you think so, I assumed he was over compensating for being a single parent, and I was actually thinking how good it was and how modern he is, worried now he may just want to see me naked??? Hmm

  • I definitely think so. Try not to think of it in a negative way, it is still a great thing for you two connect in this way. I had a similar situation to you, my dad brought me some sexy lingerie and asked if he could see it on me. I've aways been very close to my dad so i had no problem with this. My dad is also single and has been for quite awhile and he has been lonely at times. I knew him buying me lingerie was an indication of his desire to sleep with me. I love my dad very much and i would anything to make him happy, including sex. I have been sexually involved with my dad for 4 years now and it has been wonderful. We are not a couple, we are a father and daughter who have special bond. No regrets.

  • Good for you two! I would have loved being that close to my own daughter.

  • Thank you!

  • I need some new clothes, and he just gives me the money. I need some underwear at the moment, maybe I should show him some online and ask is opinion, or test his spending limits. This could work in my favour, I will speak to him tonight

  • My dad treats me really well and does spoil me especially after i started having sex with him. Its been a amazing 4 years!

  • Everybody masterbates, it's just a normal part of life. Ideally, it should be your mother buying you a sex toy, but considering the situation, your father did what he probably thought right, and I'm sure he would prefer you fucking a sex toy instead of a man.

  • I think you're right

  • Your dad did nothing wrong. It's awkward coming from him, yes, but his intentions are good. When I caught our daughter straddling & grinding the arm of our sofa, I told my wife, and we bought her a dildo. I had my wife give it to her and talk about it, because it was less awkward, but it's always odd to have that talk, regardless of which parent it is.

  • Your Dad is teaching you that sexuality is healthy and normal, sounds like a great Dad.

  • What a great dad you have. I think he has been very thoughtful and i love the way he is trying to connect with you. Its totally ok to talk with your dad and he may be able to help you from a man's point of view. This is a great opportunity for you to get close to your amazing dad. Dads can teach you alot trust me!

  • I hope he had the right intention. I agree it's better than a dad that just pretends these things don't happen. I guess if it was from my mum I would feel differently

  • I'm sure your dad has the right intentions. Its good that he is taking a interest in your sexual health. My dad has been great with me. I guess we're both lucky.

  • It's the thought that counts x

  • Probably thoughts lol

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