I want to have sex with a bit of change in it
I have two kids and a diligent, faithful husband who cares deeply about me and the kids.
he can be annoying, but he tries everything to make me happy.
just one problem...we're not that good at sex.
it's always the same ritual.
i try to do some roleplaying for a change, but he says he doesn't really like it.
i started to do some pelvic exercises to make him feel good, plus im trying to lose some weight.
i ask him to put some more affection and time when we're cuddling, but it doesn't work and he just goes straight to "down there" and starts thrusting away.
after all that, i feel like we did it but without any romantic stuff, and it just makes me sad... .
how can i improve our sex life?