Is it ok to masturbate on bed whilst wife is trying to sleep?
Rried for 13 years. My wife is gorgeous (I am not!)
A couple of years ago I was trying to get some action from the wife in bed whilst she was tired and in the end we agreed that it was ok if I just wanked myself.
We are quite sexually active and we have sex 2 or 3 times a week.
Since that first occasion masturbating next to her in bed has become quite normal and I now have wanking lube and I probably sort myself out a few times each week whilst she lays next to me either asleep or trying to sleep. I sometimes watch sex clips of her on my phone whilst I wank but sometime's I watch porn with the sound down. She does not know I watch porn. Occasionally she gets mad because of the bed movement but she is normally ok with it.
I have now bought condoms to masturbate into and use my lube also.
Is my behaviour acceptable? Would you say it was disrespectful? I could go downstairs and wank I suppose but the whole idea of her knowing I am wanking is a fairly effective turn on. I am a bit embarrassed at the same time!!