Pain in place of orgasm
My wife and I are devout Christians. We go to church and run youth groups. On the outside we are a very middle class white conservative family. Two kids and a mini van.
I am what is known as a submissive husband. My wife calls the shots when it comes to sex. She knows the power of making me wait. Sex is always at her call. If I ask or even raise the topic then she will make me wait. Usually I get one orgasm in a month sometimes that is stretched out to two and occasionally we have gone longer. Interestingly after about two months I feel that I could go forever. There are some real interesting emotions that go along with this. Some feelings of depression. some of worry. A tenseness in my shoulders and so on.
She also likes to whip me and I actually crave that. I hate it while she is actually doing it. It started out as a way to distract from the desire for sex. She would dig her fingernails into may rock hard penis. We talked about how it was a distraction. One day I confessed I had fantasised that she was a dominatrix and whipped me. It kind of built up. Now she ties me face down on the bed and gags me and lays into me with the whip. The damage usually takes about three weeks to heal. It's insanely painful. I get turned on thinking about it but as I say when it's happening I hate it and afterwards I think it's dumb. She makes me lick her or touch her to orgasm straight after or even sometimes during the session and then whips me more and then orgasms again.