I like kinky stuff, my wife does not

My wife is not interested in sex. At least not with me. We used to have more sex and she always seemed to love it, although we did not have it all the time. If she's having an affair she's really good at it because there is no opportunity for it, and I don't believe she would

I had a girlfriend who used to love watching me fuck dildos. we would often masturbate together and she would want to see me fuck myself. then we'd fuck very hard. I have kept this fetish but have now added shemale and sissy porn to the mix because an adult male using porn to jerk off with as an entire sex life leads to shemale and sissy porn after 20 years. my wife knows and at first she didn't understand and it does not turn her on at all. I guess I can understand why, she's just normal and vanilla and not interested in sex. maybe she thinks it's gross, weak, perverted...she will never say what she thinks

So, I do this myself and I'm starting to get pissed because I've exposed myself to her and she doesn't care either way, she still doesn't want sex. She also can't tell me what she likes, desires, fantasizes about. She really would be happy if it never came up again. It's driving me nuts. All I want is a normal, fun, exploitative sex life with my wife.

is this too much to ask?

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  • Well, not much has changed. Just watching porn, my toys, shemale and sissy stuff seems to play heavy now. Fuck. Work, lust, jerking. Some good nor al fun, too. Still, wife not into sex.

  • I don't blame you. My now-ex wife was never into sex and just didn't like it. I tried being inventive, but she was just a cold fish. Then, I met a hot, tall, latino nurse woman at a bookstore, we hit it off immediately, and, within 2 weeks, started having crazy, intense sex that usually wore me out for the drive home. She was a former beauty pageant winner, and liked to wear her tiera during sex, I had a huge thing/fetish for long, red nails, and she'd do hers fire-red when I came over (which then became her not being happy unless my back was bleeding after we were done), using sex toys on each other..Wild nights.

    After a few weeks, I lost interest in sex with my wife, knowing what was waiting for me 20 minutes up the road. Nurse and I were supposed to go to a business function together one night. I picked her up, she wore a lanky, sexy, navel-baring shirt that caused me to tell her..Screw the function, we're going back inside tonight.. Got home hours later, and, with half-ass interest, wife asked me how the night was. All I said was "I had some good interaction tonight". That I did..

    Only thing that stopped the wild sex with the nurse was her moving out of state about 6 months later..

  • No it's not to much to ask. My ex wife went from hot sex and a bit of swinging to zero. Then used sex as a weapon. Thats why she is called an ex. For 20 years now my 2nd wife licks my ass hole, gives prostrate massages, pisses in my mouth, fucks my ass with large dildo's and butt plugs, stays naked at home so I can watch her smokin body, host nude hot tub parties for friends and sex's me everyday.

  • Lucky you. sounds like a fun, sex adventure. I've tried many suggestions and nothing. no idea if it's growing up catholic, some other hang up, she doesn't like sex with me, medications? all of the above. it'll drive ya nuts. I tell her but nothing.

  • Time for an affair. :)

  • ......explorative, not exploitative........

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